Whether it's in remote mountainous areas or in the countryside around cities, there is a single problem everywhere. My husband's hometown is a typical singles village, and no one has ended their single life in five years.
His hometown is located in the suburbs, only more than 20 kilometers away from the city center, only two kilometers away from the market and supermarket, there are large supermarkets and markets nearby, hospitals and schools, there are scenic spots nearby, there are kindergartens and primary schools in the village, each family has its own land, you can get up early to work, you can also grow vegetables and raise chickens in the village.
However, such living conditions did not solve the problem of singleness in the village. My husband's village is the largest within a radius of five or six kilometers, but the houses are not clustered together like other villages, but scattered.
When my husband and I met, he took me to meet the friends he grew up with, there were at least 30 friends in their village, and there were friends from other nearby villages, and the men could be divided into four or five tables together, according to my husband, only three or four were married, and the rest were single.
Although there are dividends in the village every year, why are there so many singles?
My mother's home is in the mountains, more than 20 kilometers away from the county seat, the transportation is inconvenient, there are only seven or eight singles in the village, and almost all of my husband's age are married. My husband has been married for five years, and he drinks with his friends every New Year's Day, but none of them have been able to end their singleness in the past five years.
I remember two years ago, my husband's cousin in the village had a girlfriend and was going to get married, but in the end they broke up. In the past five years, none of my husband's friends have been married, and on the contrary, one of them has divorced.
I asked my husband why they didn't get married, and he replied, "It's not easy to get married now, it's hard to get married." "The conditions of those friends in my husband's village are good, there are two or three floors of houses at home, and cars can be bought at any time, such rural living conditions are okay, but why can't those singles marry wives?
There is a group of bachelors in the village, who became singles at a young age, and their parents are also from my parents-in-law's generation, and I call them aunts and uncles. Once, the aunts and uncles came to my house to see me and brought gifts, and they wanted me to help introduce the girls from the village or friends I knew to their sons.
This is the fifth time, but I've shirked it for all sorts of reasons. I have some unmarried girls and divorced women around me, but I don't want to introduce them to them.
First of all, I understand the requirements of my friends, who are very picky and just want to find a rich man in the city who has a house and a car. Secondly, if I really succeed in introducing them, I am afraid that I will be blamed in case of conflicts between husband and wife in the future, and I don't want to cause trouble.
I have a distant relative who is also divorced, and she has a son, and she wants me to introduce her to the bachelors in the village. However, I don't want to.
Because I know that she is arrogant, she looks down on rural men, and she may laugh at me for marrying into the countryside. Therefore, no matter how much she begged me, I would not introduce the bachelor from the village to her, because I knew that she would not be willing to marry in the countryside.
When my husband and I got married, all the bachelors in his village were the same age as him, the oldest of them were only two or three years older than him, and some were a year or two younger than him.
Now my husband is 35 years old, they are about the same age, some are even 40 years old, but they are still single. In the five years that my husband and I have been married, we have never attended any of the bachelor weddings in the village because none of them have been married.
My husband should thank me, if I hadn't married him, he might still be single, if I hadn't married him, then he would be a 35-year-old bachelor now, a 45-year-old bachelor in another ten years, and a bachelor in his 60s in another thirty years, it's funny to think about it, I saved my husband.
In the past, I used to joke with my boss that this was a bachelor village, and he would not refute it, he said that there were indeed many bachelors in the village, and he also said that it was not only me who said such things, but others also said that this is a famous bachelor village, because there are too many bachelors.