Every baby comes to this world with a unique temperament, and every mother will also find that some children are born as if they are here to "repay their kindness", while some children are like they are here to "collect debts". This is because each child has their own unique personality and characteristics that will show up at the time of birth. For example, my cousin gave birth to a second child, and this little guy cried so much that she couldn't stop tossing every day. In contrast, her Dabao was very obedient when she was a child, eating, sleeping, and eating, and did not toss her at all. The cousin said with emotion: "This second child is really here to collect debts, and he tosses me enough!."After listening to my cousin's complaints, I also replied with a smile: "Your two precious sons, one comes to repay the favor and the other comes to collect debts, what a world of difference!.""This example made me realize that every child's personality is revealed at an early age, and it is not only a coincidence, but also the child's innate traits at work.
Every child has their own unique personality and characteristics, just as no two leaves in the world are exactly the same. Some children are particularly docile and sensible after birth, they are very quiet and well-behaved since they were young, and rarely cry or even toss their parents. These children are particularly adaptable to unfamiliar environments, which is very reassuring for parents. For example, my friend's daughter, she has been very regular since she was a child, she finishes feeding at 8 o'clock every night, puts on diapers, and basically doesn't wake up anymore. Such children make parents feel that they are returning the favor, because they rarely need to spend too much energy and time to care for them.
However, a child with a docile personality does not mean that he does not have a temper. Conversely, when they face difficulties or setbacks, they may show greater temper and have difficulty regulating their emotions. Therefore, as parents, we should pay more attention to our children's inner world, give them enough security, and help them manage their emotions well. In education, we should fully affirm the strengths of the child's personality and avoid the negative impact that the child's shortcomings may bring. Be careful not to neglect your child's care, especially for those who are too obedient.
On the contrary, there are children who show a very lively personality after birth, they cry loudly and are very sensitive to changes in the things around them. Such children often cry, express their needs, and continue to cry if their needs cannot be met. For such emotionally sensitive and petty children, parents need to be very careful in their parenting style, and too intense or too tough parenting methods may lead to problems in the child's psychological condition.
In the face of such children, parents need to be more tolerant and not let their mentality**. Excessive yelling and threats are not good for children and may affect their development on the contrary. Parents need to be consistent in reassuring and guiding their children to help them calm their emotions. The key is to understand your child's feelings, try not to interfere too much with their behavior, and give them plenty of freedom.
Through the exploration of children's personalities, I deeply realized that children's natural personality traits have an important impact on their development. As parents, we should accept and identify with each child's unique personality and should not expect them to be like other people's children. Every child has their own strengths and weaknesses, and we need to focus on identifying and nurturing their strengths, while also guiding them to overcome their weaknesses.
My daughter was born with a very docile and well-behaved personality, and her nursery class also adapted easily to the new environment, so I think she is here to repay the favor. However, I also realized that she may not have enough courage and adaptability in the face of challenges. Therefore, I will give her more companionship and encouragement to help her build self-confidence and cultivate her tenacity and courage in the face of difficulties.
Finally, every child is unique, and their personality traits will gradually emerge as they grow. As parents, we should be open-minded, accept our children's personalities, give them appropriate guidance and care, and help them become independent, confident and kind people.