Xu Han is 36 years old this year, 1.65 meters tall, and she is also beautiful, but she is still single, and she is the so-called older leftover girl in others' mouths, and her family is in a hurry because of her marriage.
Xu Han had been in a relationship before, and the two were together for six years, but her boyfriend betrayed her, and since then, Xu Han no longer believes in love.
When he was in college, Xu Han talked about a boyfriend named Jiang Xiaofeng, the two were college classmates, in his sophomore year, Jiang Xiaofeng took the initiative to pursue Xu Han, bought her 99 roses, and wrote a love letter.
Xu Han read the content of the love letter, was moved to tears, took the flowers, agreed to Jiang Xiaofeng's pursuit, and the two hugged each other tightly.
Jiang Xiaofeng is sunny and handsome, can speak well, has high emotional intelligence, and is a good match for Xu Han, talented and beautiful.
After Xu Han and Jiang Xiaofeng were together, the two often studied Xi and classes together, and on weekends they went shopping and watched movies together, which was inseparable and romantic.
Xu Han couldn't stand Jiang Xiaofeng's sweet words, and fell in love, she regarded Jiang Xiaofeng as the person she had been with in this life, and she could give everything for him.
After graduating from college in a blink of an eye, Jiang Xiaofeng chose to continue his graduate studies, Xu Han came out to work directly, and the two rented a house outside and lived together.
During that time, in order to concentrate on graduate school, Jiang Xiaofeng did not go to work, occasionally worked part-time, worked as a tutor with others, and earned a little money, but it was still not enough to live.
Xu Han's monthly salary is four or five thousand, and he is responsible for paying the rent, and the rest of the money is used for the two of them to eat and drink, and the money he earns every month is basically used up.
During the Chinese New Year, Xu Han proposed to take Jiang Xiaofeng back to see his parents, the two have been together for a few years, and there should be a result.
Jiang Xiaofeng knew about it, and said that he was still in graduate school, and it was too early to get married.
After hearing this, Xu Han became angry, feeling that Jiang Xiaofeng didn't love her and didn't care about her, Jiang Xiaofeng had to agree to meet his parents in order to make Xu Han happy.
When Xu Han's mother saw Jiang Xiaofeng for the first time, she felt that others were not calm, she spoke flamboyantly, she didn't do anything she just said, and she didn't take the initiative to help with the work when she came to the house for the first time, sitting there playing with her mobile phone, like an uncle.
When eating, Jiang Xiaofeng was also very casual, before everyone arrived, he began to move his chopsticks, saying that he was too hungry to eat, and ate three bowls of rice in a row, completely ignoring the feelings of others.
At the dinner table, Xu Han's mother's face changed, and she probably understood the situation of Jiang Xiaofeng's family, only to know that his family was rural, the family conditions were average, and he had a younger brother.
And Jiang Xiaofeng is still in graduate school and has no job, relying on Xu Han to support him, Xu Han's mother was so angry that she couldn't even eat.
After eating, her mother called Xu Han aside and persuaded her to break up early, disagreeing with the two being together, feeling that Jiang Xiaofeng was not responsible and not suitable for life.
Xu Han didn't listen at all, and helped Jiang Xiaofeng speak, saying that others were very good, but they were a little machismo.
The mother said earnestly: "Silly girl, don't blindly pay, the one who pays the most in love will always hurt the most, he is now in graduate school, and he will rely on you to support him, and when he has the ability in the future, what should I do if he kicks you with a kick"?
Xu Han replied: "Mom, Jiang Xiaofeng is not that kind of person, you think of him too badly, he is still in graduate school, I should support him, isn't it true that two people are together to support each other."
The mother shook her head and said, "You are too simple, you are not married yet, and the future is unknown."
Xu Han reassured his mother that they had been together for five years, and their relationship had always been good, and when Jiang Xiaofeng worked, the two would get married.
After hearing this, her mother did not persuade her again, knowing that Xu Han was dedicated to her feelings and did not hit the south wall and did not look back.
Later, Jiang Xiaofeng was admitted to graduate school and went directly to a listed company to do planning, with a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan, while Xu Han was only in a small company with no prospects, and the gap between the two was a bit big.
Jiang Xiaofeng didn't care about it at first, but it didn't take long for Xu Han to lose his job and look for a job again, and Jiang Xiaofeng began to dislike it, but he didn't say anything, and when he got home, he just lay down and played with his mobile phone, and he didn't care.
At this time, Xu Han offered to get married, but Jiang Xiaofeng did not agree, nor did he refuse, saying that his career is now on the rise, and he is too busy, so he will get married a year later.
Xu Han didn't think much about it, and felt that Jiang Xiaofeng was reasonable, so he should focus on his career first.
Xu Han waited for another year for him, but after a year, Jiang Xiaofeng still didn't propose to get married, Xu Han didn't want to wait any longer, so he took the initiative to bring it up, but at this time, Jiang Xiaofeng proposed to break up.
It turned out that Jiang Xiaofeng had a girlfriend in the company a long time ago, and he stepped on two boats, and Xu Han was kept in the dark and didn't know.
Jiang Xiaofeng said to Xu Han: "It's not suitable for the two of us to be together, let's break up, I don't want to settle anymore, it's not responsible for us, I just want to find someone I really love to marry, I don't have a common language with you, I've been improving, and you're still standing still, the gap between us is getting bigger and bigger, so end it as soon as possible."
When Xu Han heard this, he didn't want to believe that the person he loved deeply would say such cruel words.
At the beginning, he paid so much for him to go to graduate school, but now that he has the ability, he ruthlessly abandoned her, and the six-year relationship was dispersed.
After the breakup, Xu Han's temperament changed greatly, in order to keep herself from thinking cranky, she enrolled herself in many classes to study Xi, wanting to improve her ability.
Then she began to work frantically, working overtime, not letting herself be idle, she understood that only when she became strong was the king, and no one could be relied on.
When her friends introduced her to her, she refused directly, and she got angry and ignored anyone who proposed her feelings.
Within two years, due to Xu Han's outstanding performance, he was successfully promoted to regional manager, with a monthly salary of tens of thousands, and after earning money, Xu Han bought himself an apartment and finally had a home.
As long as I have time, I will go out to travel, I enjoy life very much, and I am free and easy to live alone.
Although Xu Han has a successful career, the marriage has not been resolved, and the parents at home are anxious and persuade her to find a man to marry, and they have also introduced her to many objects, but she has refused, she doesn't want to get married, and she thinks it's good to live alone.
As she grew older, people her age around her got married, and there were children, and the family was happy.
Xu Han is alone, she looks out of place, and sometimes she is inevitably envious, and she is also telling herself in her heart that if she finds a man to start a family, she will at least have a companion when she gets old in the future.
But she is 36 years old this year, and she has long missed the best age to get married.
Xu Han suddenly figured it out and agreed to get married, and his parents were so happy that they hurriedly asked their relatives to introduce them. It didn't take long for someone to come to the door to introduce the object, but when the man knew Xu Han's age, he shook his head and left, and there was no follow-up.
Relatives introduced several objects, but they didn't succeed, they disliked Xu Han's age, and Xu Han didn't take a fancy to them.
Later, a relative introduced Xu Han to a second marriage, the man was 38 years old, working in a state-owned enterprise, divorced with a daughter, and the economic conditions were okay.
After Xu Han found out, he didn't refuse and agreed to go on a blind date.
On the day of the blind date, the two made an appointment in a café, and when Xu Han saw him for the first time, he had an impression of him, thinking that he was elegant and considerate.
The second-married man was also satisfied with Xu Han, and felt that she was beautiful, so the two left each other *** After going back, the second-married man often chatted with Xu Han and asked her for warmth, and the two chatted enthusiastically and were interesting to each other.
After chatting for a while, the second-married man took the initiative to confess, Xu Han also agreed, took this step, and the two began to officially date.
During the time when the two got along, Xu Han fell in love again, thinking that he was the one who would accompany him for life.
After a few months of dating, the two were ready to get married, but the second-married man put forward three conditions.
First, after marriage, his children should be treated as if they were his own, and he was not allowed to beat and scold.
Second, the AA system is implemented after marriage, and his salary will not be handed over, and he has to raise children.
Third, he is usually busy with work and has no time to take care of his family, so Xu Han is responsible for laundry and cooking.
After listening to these three conditions, Xu Han couldn't believe it, this was looking for a partner, it was clearly looking for a free nanny.
Xu Han was reluctant to compromise, knowing that the two were not suitable, he replied directly: "Your face is so big", and then turned around and left.
The two parted unhappily like this, and the people around them said that Xu Han was too picky, and such a good object was not cherished, Xu Han smiled bitterly when she heard it, and did not speak, she was too lazy to explain.