Vinny Sha Tu Nisha
Marriage is the destination of love, but sometimes it can also become the grave of love.
When love fades into marriage, and trust fades over time, cheating may become a choice for some people seeking excitement and novelty.
However, paper cannot contain fire, and any betrayal will leave traces. Let's listen to how these five wives found out about their husbands' cheating, and their stories may give us some inspiration.
1. Intuitive vigilance: the sixth sense in love.
A woman's intuition is the most accurate. "That's what Ms. Lin told me.
She and her husband have been married for ten years and have always respected each other. However, for a while, she always felt that her husband's behavior was a little abnormal: he often came home late, kept his mobile phone with him, and cared less about her.
One night, she checked her husband's phone while he was asleep and found an ambiguous text message with another woman.
"My gut tells me he has a problem," Ms. Lin said. My heart broke when I saw those text messages. ”
2. Clues: betrayal in the details.
Details determine success or failure", and the same applies to marriage.
Mrs. Lee's discovery of her husband's cheating began with some subtle changes. She noticed that her husband's collar sometimes smelled of perfume that didn't belong to hers, and that there was occasionally a woman's long hair on his shirt.
Mrs. Lee said, "These clues made me start to suspect him. When I confronted him, he initially tried to hide it, but eventually confessed. ”
3. Reminder from friends: bystanders are clear.
The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear. Ms. Wang found out that her husband was cheating thanks to a reminder from a friend.
Her friend told her that she had seen her husband behaving intimately with another woman in public.
At first, Ms. Wang didn't believe it, but when she questioned her husband and got it confirmed, she felt five thunderbolts.
"I'm so grateful to my good friend that I might have been kept in the dark if she hadn't reminded me," Ms. Wang said. ”
4. Social**: The betrayal of the virtual world.
In this digital age, social networking has become an indispensable part of many people's lives. It was through her husband's social ** account that Mrs. Zhao discovered his cheating behavior.
She found that her husband often interacted frequently with a woman on a social platform and spoke ambiguously.
Mrs. Zhao said: "I didn't believe that he would betray me, but when I saw those chats, I had to face reality. ”
5. Bank statement: the transaction record of money.
Ms. Chan found out that her husband was cheating because she checked the family's bank records.
She found that her husband often transferred money to an unfamiliar account, and the amount was not small.
"When I questioned him, he initially wanted to deny it, but eventually admitted that it was money he gave to his lover," Ms Chan said. ”
Conclusion:
Marriage is the grave of love, but love without marriage will die and have no place to be buried. ”
The stories of these five wives give us a glimpse of the betrayal and pain of marriage, but at the same time, we also see the courage and strength in the face of adversity.
When love is betrayed in a marriage, we need to face reality calmly and make a brave choice. Whether you choose to forgive or leave, it is a responsible attitude towards yourself and your marriage.
Hopefully, these stories can give us some inspiration and reflection: how should we protect our marriage and happiness on the road to love?