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There is a Chinese proverb called "Three people often come together, and the family is ruined", which means that if you have these three kinds of people in your family often, then your family will soon fall into ruin, and the family members will be separated.
Although this is just a proverb, it can be passed down to this day, and it naturally has its truth.
Chinese have always been hospitable, and it is usually believed that all visitors should be warmly received. But some people's motives are not pure. It is not a good sign that these people are constantly coming in and out of your house, and you have to learn to say no.
01: The one who spreads gossip
Gossip spreaders are those who like to talk about other people's private affairs, spread rumors, and gossip. They like to use it for entertainment, but it is easy to ruin the harmony within the family.
Home is our most intimate place, with our most secrets, and everyone needs privacy and respect.
If there are people who like to spread gossip in and out of our homes frequently, trust and camaraderie between family members and friends will be hurt.
Not only will they spread what they see, but they will also spread what is not happening at all through their own speculation and adding fuel to it, bringing unforeseen negative effects to our families and families.
Therefore, we should carefully choose and associate with people who can keep secrets and respect the privacy of others. At the same time, if we find that someone is spreading gossip, we should also resolutely stop it and maintain a harmonious atmosphere in the family.
02: People who are not in good health
A healthy body is the most important resource for a person, and if a person is not in good health, whether it is in the family or in social life, it is a respectful existence.
For those who are not in good health, the most important thing is to get enough rest and **, not to let him come to your house. This type of person is like a ticking time bomb, and you can't make any guarantees about his health.
If an unexpected situation happens to him while he is a guest at your house, you have no way to deal with it, and you can't bear the consequences.
As long as you have a healthy body, there will be more opportunities for future interactions. When the other party's body is not yet **, try not to let the other party come to your house as a guest.
We can show compassion and understanding to people who are not in good health, and try to help and support them. However, we also need to avoid over-burdening ourselves, otherwise it may put an extra burden on ourselves and our families.
03: People who are greedy for small and cheap
People who are greedy for small and cheap are the fuse of contradictions and unpopular existence. Such people pursue personal interests excessively and will even do whatever it takes.
They may often want to take undeserved benefits from us, such as asking for gifts, borrowing money and not paying it back, or using our resources.
For such people, we must first learn to say "no" and set our own bottom line. We cannot afford to allow others to take advantage of us all the time, resulting in personal and family losses.
At the same time, we also want to clearly tell each other our bottom line and attitude, and if necessary, do not hesitate to stay away from these people.
Building a healthy interpersonal relationship and balancing personal interests is an important factor in maintaining the happiness and stability of our family, and we should not let you and your family suffer losses because you can't pull the strings.
In interpersonal interactions, we need to learn to identify and deal with people who should not and do not need to be deeply acquainted.
The position around a person is limited, and only by cleaning up these unhealthy social relationships can you make more worthy partners and develop yourself and your family better.
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