Do you know? In China, the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a big problem. This contradiction is often due to the different concepts and habits of the two generations, just like the collision of the pot lid and the pot. To solve it, someone has to take a step back first.
Mother-in-law, you are experienced and know everything about your family. When your daughter-in-law disagrees with you, you take a step back a little and try to understand her thoughts. This way, she will feel your care and respect, and the contradictions will be less acute.
As for the daughter-in-law, you also have to understand that the mother-in-law is the elder in the family, and her life experience is very valuable. When there is a conflict with your mother-in-law, you take a step back and respect her opinion. In this way, the mother-in-law will feel your respect and care, and the conflict will not be so big.
Of course, concession does not mean unprincipled compromise. We have to have our own bottom line, and we can't give up everything. But as long as everyone thinks about the family and the happiness of the family, there will naturally be fewer contradictions.
In short, a family is like a ship, and everyone has to work together to make it move forward. Therefore, whether it is a mother-in-law or a daughter-in-law, everyone must have a "concession" mentality, so that the family can be harmonious and happy.