Today, my best friend complained to me about her mother-in-law's situation, how the old lady acted arbitrarily at home and meddled in her family's affairsHow could he accuse her in front of his son and grandson, and oppose her everywhere.
His husband is elm pimple and does not say anything, and all kinds of grievances are unpleasant and uncomfortable, which simply forces her to want to escape from ---
My best friend said that I listened silently, and from time to time I comforted a few words, it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs, not to mention that I am also in this whirlpool, it is not easy to judge, to judge who is right and who is wrong.
Now there are all kinds of scripts on the Internet that "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law become mothers and daughters", and I sometimes can't scratch them when I brush them, haha, sure enoughOther people's lives are interesting
However, I believe that most people are sober, deduction does not mean life, and the relationship with the old man (her) at home has been for a long time, even if various methods are used, there will definitely be conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Can the contradiction be untied in the end, or will it become a dead knot, it depends on how the male protagonist caught in the middle is resolved?
I remember a**, the mother asked her son: I quarreled with your daughter-in-law, who do you help?
The son replied, "Whoever is not good to my mother, I will not be good to anyone."Whoever treats my wife badly, I don't treat anyone well!
I think my son's answer is quite witty, anyway, the purpose is to think that my wife and mother are good, and everyone is really good!
The following words want to say to all the "male protagonists" in the family:
In real life, it's as simple as answering a question:
If you dare to want to be a judge between your wife and mother, then you are very wrong, with their power, it is enough for you to end up with two sides that are not human, and you can't eat and walk around!(This is the first pit).
If you want harmony and cleanliness in your home, the only way is to always stand on your wife's side.
There will definitely be someone to refute, aren't you making me unfilial?My mother has raised me for more than 20 years, and my wife has only been with me for a few years, why should I go to my wife?My wife is right?
Don't forget to avoid the first pitfall: you are not a judge, your home has never been a place to be reasonable, and your rash behavior will only exacerbate the confrontation between your wife and mother.
Then you have to think about the next question, do you want your mother to be happy, or do you want your mother to win?
I can tell you responsibly that standing on your mother's side and "winning" your wife together is called being sincerely angry with your mother.
Do you really think your mom wants to win that much?That's what they do in your eyes?90% of mothers want to see their children doing well.
If you stand on your mother's side and count your wife together, it seems that you are helping your mother, but in fact you will make her sad. Mom will think, it turns out that my son is not satisfied with her either, how did my son find such a good woman like this!My son is so miserable!
But what if from the beginning, you were firmly on your wife's side?Your mom may be upset at first, but she will figure it out later.
Because she knows that these two people can live together, she will be very relieved, and it will be no problem for you to live a small life!This happiness may be delayed for a few days, but it will definitely come, but she won't tell you, or she will lose face.
There is also an added benefit: once you firmly stand on your wife's side, your father will most likely stand on your mother's side and will help your mother "support", which can also promote the harmonious relationship between the two old people!
So, dear male protagonists, do you know how to solve the problem of that brain-burning mother-in-law and daughter-in-law now?If you're the heroine, you can transfer it to your dear him!
May each of our families be warm, harmonious, and happy!