With the development of society and the change of people's concepts, blind date is no longer the traditional "older generation" behavior, but the choice of more and more young people. For the post-90s, blind date is a way to get to know the opposite sex and expand the social circle, and at the same time, it can also meet parents' expectations and concerns for their children.
In the process of blind date, the post-90s generation pays attention to whether each other's interests, personality traits and living habits are similar, and whether they have common language and topics. Compared with the traditional blind date, the post-90s generation is more inclined to fall in love freely, rather than deciding their lifelong events through blind dates.
However, in today's society, due to the accelerated pace of life and the increase in work pressure, many young people do not have enough time and energy to find their other half. Therefore, blind date has become a relatively convenient way to get to know the opposite sex. At the same time, with the popularity of social **, online blind date has also become the choice of more and more young people. Through the social platform, young people can more easily meet like-minded people of the opposite sex, and can have a deeper understanding of each other's personalities and living habits.
However, there are also some problems in the blind date process. For example, some people may have high expectations of their blind dates, or place too much emphasis on material conditions and neglect spiritual communication. These problems can lead to unsatisfactory results of blind dates, and can even make young people feel fearful about marriage.
Therefore, for the post-90s, a rational and objective attitude should be maintained in the blind date process. They should focus on each other's inner qualities and common language, rather than paying too much attention to external conditions. At the same time, parents should also respect their children's choices and not interfere too much with their concept of marriage. Only when both parties are open and honest can blind dates become a true way to get to know the opposite sex.
Therefore, in the face of the phenomenon of post-90s blind dates, we need to treat it with a rational and mature attitude. Although blind date as a way to find a partner has a certain degree of legitimacy, whether it can ultimately lead to a happy marriage still depends on whether both parties can understand each other and have emotional resonance.
In this process, we should be wary of the tendency to pay too much attention to appearance and material conditions, and should pay more attention to the inner qualities and character traits of the other person. Only in this way can we find the person who is truly suitable for us among the many possibilities and create a warm and happy family together.