We all know that the cheating marriage of Chinese women has been industrialized, and the means of marriage and love transfer, bride price, house washing and money transfer, etc., have emerged in an endless stream. A female tutor Ququ can have tens of millions of fans, and the highest number of fairies in the live broadcast room is more than 100,000, **Learn to use marriage and love to catch men.
Ququ is just one of the female mentors, there are countless female mentors who have grown up with women, and the culture of fishing women has long been prevalent, but it has not been noticed by men, and there have been many vicious incidents in recent years, and a corner has been revealed.
In recent years, the number of people or institutions that assist women in cheating men about marriage and money has begun to skyrocket. Just like matchmaking, the deception methods have been processed, and there are various forms, for those men who want to get married, the following is a list of 5 common situations.
First, the marriage agency jointly deceived the marriage girl, and after defrauding the money, the woman lost contact or ran away, and the marriage agency directly cheated. This is an incident in 2023, the man will disappear after giving the bride price, and the matchmaker will also say that he has introduced it anyway, but he will not return the money.
This kind of is to run away with the money directly, the purpose is too obvious, and it also tells us again that although the engagement is recognized by the law as a form of marriage in the bride price judgment, the woman is judged to return the bride price less, but on other issues, the engagement ≠ marriage, and the woman can run away and sue at any time.
Second, in addition to collecting referral fees, matchmaking also has to take a cut on the bride price and other expenses. In the above example, the kind of person who ran away after taking the money, the man in the court could at least get back part of the money, and what was even more amazing was a hot search incident that happened this month, where the man spent 200,000 bride price and divorced in just over ten days.
The content of this whole incident is too long, and the province is: Ms. Niu ran away after 12 days of marriage, and the man's bride price was 2030,000, Ms. Niu fished 660,000, 1370,000 yuan, and the court awarded 1,600 yuan.
This man is miserable, everyone knows that this is obviously cheating money, but they just let you go bankrupt according to the law, the little fairy won hemp, the marriage agency won hemp, the fairy judge smiled happily, only the man who suffered a lot of losses was there to bear everything.
In addition, in the past few months, the matchmaking bride price commission incident has also been hotly searched, and the specific events are as follows.
Provincial flow: The man got married with the woman through a marriage matchmaking and gave a bride price of 300,000 yuan, and the woman has been reluctant to ** after marriage, and even ran away from home a few months later to ask for a divorce, only promising to return 100,000 bride price. After a deeper understanding, it was found that the 300,000 bride price matchmaker took away 100,000 yuan, and an additional 20,000 yuan introduction fee was charged to the man.
This is a typical matchmaking couple's cheat of money, but the existing law also has no way to deal with them, and there is nothing to do. Matchmaking originally just charged a referral fee and then provided real matchmaking services, but what happened? Look at this matchmaking, not only is the introduction fee expensive, but the information provided by the woman is also obviously problematic, and she also conceals the man in private, and asks for an extra 100,000 bride price to take it yourself, isn't this a typical black matchmaker?
If a person collects money and doesn't do anything, and doesn't return the money when he runs away, he puts it in any industry, this is a fraud, right? But in marriage and love, the woman didn't do anything to do it. A service organization that can't guarantee even the most basic transparency and integrity is a serious violation of the law in other industries, right? But on the issue of marriage and love, there is nothing wrong with marriage matchmaking.
These two groups of people who can legally defraud men are now increasingly coming together, colluding with each other to dominate traditional men who want to get married.
Third, the matchmaking and the woman set up a blind date bureau and share the referral fee together, which mostly occurs in small places, county towns and rural areas. Due to the uneven distribution of the sexes, we can often see the news that many men queue up just to blind date a girl during the Chinese New Year, and this kind of thing has also been on the news and hot searches in Xuzhou, Henan and Anhui in Jiangsu.
This situation made many matchmakers find business opportunities, they specially invited a few girls to come over, and then released a message to wait for the men who returned to their hometown for the New Year to come to them, each of whom charged a referral fee ranging from hundreds to thousands, let them line up to go on a blind date with those girls, and then give those girls a part of the introduction fee.
The result is also conceivable, those girls will symbolically chat, add WeChat, and basically lose contact after the New Year. In fact, you don't have to think about it, this woman has been in love so much, her mentality has long been inflated, and she is so profitable, how can they like those men who go on blind dates.
Fourth, matchmaking matchmaking, asking the woman to pretend to be the woman's family, and discussing the engagement to cheat money. For example, the hot search in December last year The guy set a wedding date only to find out that the woman's family was all trusted, which is an example, this is a gang crime.
Fifth, the marriage agency collaborated with the woman and had a relationship with the man when he went on a blind date, and then used ** to extort. I think everyone is familiar with this matter, the blind date case that was changed last year is an example, obviously you and I are willing to have a relationship, but afterwards the woman sued ** with the marriage agency to blackmail.
After many times of communication, the man was forced to give money to calm things down, and the marriage agency asked the man for thousands of yuan in various names, and reassured him that he was fine. But 7 days later, the man was still criminally detained on suspicion of **, and was arrested 12 days later, after which the Luannan County Procuratorate prosecuted the man for **, and sentenced Xiaodi to three years in prison and a fine of 10,000 yuan after the court trial.
Finally, after the man served a full 3 years in prison and insisted on appealing for 5 years, the court cleared him. However, although he waited for his innocence, the man's work and life can be said to be completely ruined, and then look at the woman and the marriage agency, there is still no.
It's bad enough to pay the money to the intermediary blind date and be blackmailed, and after giving the money, he was falsely accused and sent in for 3 years, if it weren't for the man's insistence, he would even have to wear the hat of a ** criminal for the rest of his life, which is a risk of blind date through matchmaking, which is not insignificant.
These 5 situations are all relatively common matchmaking in recent years**, and all the above cases have basically been hot searches in the past six months. In the past, we all said that the real money is written in the criminal law, except for a few situations such as the woman defrauding the man with the help of marriage and love.
Now it's good that not only the woman, but also the marriage agency is also involved, and the joint fraud with the woman has added another link to the marriage fraud industry chain for men. Coupled with the maintenance of the law and the selective reservation of tradition, women can now be said to enter marriage at no cost, and the unfavorable conditions have been stripped away, while men are still being kidnapped by the world to take on traditional responsibilities and are forced to accept the current game of licking the dog and chasing.
This is similar to the previous house, the original residential property of the house in the wind of comparison and speculation, the formation of its own residential nature has nothing to do with the nature of the speculation industry chain, and even overshadowed the original attributes, now the same is true of the marriage fraud industry chain, and it will be more serious.
After all, more and more people know that the most profitable thing now is not P2P, not real estate, not **, but marriage and love fraud, steady profit and no loss, court endorsement, zero profit, and no bullying. From love to marriage, from matchmakers to matchmakers, the marriage fraud industry chain has its own strange tricks, which can make all the money out of men, creating a modern legend of legal and successful entrepreneurship.
However, all this is also a necessary stage before the arrival of the wave of male awakening, and we can't stop the general trend, so we can only use continuous voices to let more male compatriots see all this, and unite more people to make the next version come faster.