The pursuit of knowledge and the improvement of one's own literacy, whether in ancient or modern times, are universal. For the younger generation from ordinary families, if they lack the support of extensive interpersonal relationships, perhaps the best way to realize their personal value is to participate in the college entrance examination and enter a prestigious school.
As the saying goes, there is no end to learning, and knowledge changes fate. But does going through hardships necessarily make people one one succeed? A student's future depends on a number of factors. Puzzledly, some parents find it difficult to accept this reality, insisting that only when their child enters the prestigious school of their dreams can it be considered a successful start.
Recently, there were reports of a high school student who was forced to repeat three times, resulting in mental problems and behaving like a child. This has drawn attention to the stress of contemporary students, not only in secondary school students, but also in primary and kindergarten levels. Heavy homework has become the main reason why many students are unable to have a happy childhood.
The life of a senior high school student, even going to the toilet, has to rush to grab time, and it is inevitable to seize time to read between meals, which has become the norm that many people have to accept. Parents may have thought it was a positive sign in the past, but now more and more people are unhappy with it.
What do we live for? How much can you gain from studying hard since you were a child and working hard as an adult? Perhaps because of the current situation of the employment situation of college students, many parents of primary and secondary school students are no longer so anxious about their academic performance.
As long as students are healthy and safe, grades will follow. However, not everyone has such an open-minded attitude, and some parents may push their daughter into a trance in order to get her into a prestigious school.
Recently, a ** that has attracted attention has gone viral, showing a footage of a student with a good figure repeatedly jumping and playing. After learning about her experience, no one could help but feel sad. It turned out that she was a high school student who was supposed to be a freshman about to enter college.
Parents have been dissatisfied with the test results, so they ask girls to repeat them year after year. Girls have been forced by their parents to repeat their studies three times, and it is really unbearable for this suffocating way of upbringing.
At the end of an exam, she abruptly put down all her papers and started playing hopscotch, even her voice becoming more childish. She behaved like a child, making it difficult to associate her with someone who had graduated from high school and had been repeating her studies for three years.
Grades have dropped again and again, is it the girl's own reason? Some parents are acting in a frightening way. A reporter learned that it turned out that the candidate's repetition results were not as good as a year, and they were far from the colleges and universities he imagined. Faced with this situation, parents also became uneasy.
Parents constantly blame and blame their daughter for not being angry, and now they are in a dilemma. If they had known that such a result would be achieved, they might have thought that it would be better not to repeat it, because it took so much training cost and time to get this disappointing result.
Perhaps parents don't realize that their high-pressure nurturing methods are pushing their daughters into the abyss. It is precisely because she can't stand such standards and expectations that she chooses to fall back into child mode and hide herself in what was once a brief happy time.
The student initially shows difficulty concentrating, mood swings, sometimes crying, sometimes laughing. Later, she began to experience auditory hallucinations, but her favorite activity was playing hopscotch.
Seeing this situation, many netizens felt distressed, perhaps for her, hopscotch was the only thing that made her feel happy. Needless to say, every parent's attitude towards their children is unique.
Some people see the hard work of high school students, even if the students themselves feel anxious, parents have to comfort them by saying that grades are not the only thing that matters. However, there are some parents who do not have much of their own skills and expect their offspring to transform into phoenixes.
Students who study hard in school will understand the importance of talent and resources after hard work. For parents who are too limited to afford schooling, they may think that just sitting in the classroom and not going to work is the easiest thing in the world.
With the repetition of grades declining again and again, is it the girl's own problem? Some parents behave horribly. Netizens summed it up very incisively, even if it is work, there is always time to go home and rest, but if you meet this kind of parents who exert great pressure on their children, you can't find a way out.
It is naïve to think that repeating will inevitably lead to good grades. For the extreme practices of parents, most netizens can understand it through the screen. However, it should be reminded that people who think that repeating their studies will definitely get good grades are actually too simplistic.
In fact, experienced high school teachers are usually less inclined to choose to repeat the exam lightly, unless there is a serious mistake in the exam, which is far from the student's own strength.
In addition, repeat students tend to have more pressure to enter the exam room than fresh graduates. And in the case of limited individual ability, one more year of study does not mean that a qualitative leap can be achieved.
Taking a step back, even if you have the strength, some candidates belong to the typical type of stage fright, usually performing well in exams, but becoming nervous when it comes to critical moments, which usually stems from a huge mental load.
Conclusion] A student's future is not determined solely by the results of the college entrance examination, although grades are important, parents should not confuse the concept. We need to approach our studies with the mentality of doing our best and doing what we can.
Topic: Is there anything you would like to say to a girl or her parents?