Learning can change destiny, and this is evident in both ancient and modern times. For people from ordinary backgrounds who lack network resources, perhaps one of the best ways to get into a prestigious school by taking the college entrance examination is one of the best ways.
But can you become a human being just because you have endured hardship? A student's future is influenced by many factors. However, some parents find it difficult to accept this reality and insist that their children go to so-called good schools.
The pressure on modern students is increasing, not only for middle school students, but also for elementary schools and kindergartens. A large amount of homework has caused many students to lose the joy of childhood.
What is the purpose of our lives? I started studying hard since I was a child, and when I grew up, I rushed into work, and what did I end up with? Perhaps because of the reality of the employment situation of college graduates, many parents of primary and secondary school students no longer attach too much importance to academic performance. As long as students are healthy and safe, grades will naturally go their course. However, not everyone can be so open-minded, and some parents force their children to enter prestigious schools.
Recently, a ** on the Internet has caused heated discussions, and the content is a tall student repeatedly jumping and playing. After learning about her background, no one can help but feel sad. It turned out that she was supposed to be a high school student who was about to enter college.
However, parents are always dissatisfied with their children's test scores. They insisted on repeating their children year after year, and the girl had been forced by her parents to repeat three times, and she could not stand this suffocating upbringing.
She suddenly put down the test paper in her hand and began to play hopscotch, and even her voice seemed more childish. She behaved like a child, and it was hard to imagine that she had graduated from high school and repeated her studies for three years.
The girl's grades are getting worse and worse every year, is this because of her own reasons? This scares some parents.
After learning about the situation, a reporter found that the candidate's repetition results were getting worse and worse, and the gap between him and the college she wanted to apply for was getting bigger and bigger. Faced with this situation, parents also feel helpless.
Parents are constantly blaming and complaining that their daughter is not angry, and now she is in a dilemma. They realized that if they had known this, they might have better not let her repeat it, because they had spent so much time and energy training her, but they had achieved such a result.
However, perhaps parents have not yet realized that the high-pressure nurturing methods they have imposed are pushing their daughters into the abyss. It is precisely because she cannot bear such pressures and expectations that she retreats to the mode of her childhood, trying to avoid those short and happy moments.
The student begins with a lack of concentration and a rapid change in mood, sometimes crying and sometimes laughing. Subsequently, she began to experience auditory hallucinations, but her favorite activity was hopscotch.
Seeing this situation, many netizens felt distressed, perhaps hopscotch was the only way she could feel happy. There is no doubt that every parent's attitude towards their children is different.
Some people see the hardships of high school students, and even if the students themselves feel anxious, their parents comfortingly tell them that grades aren't the only thing that matters. However, some parents are not good themselves, but they expect their children to transform like phoenixes.
Those who study hard will recognize the importance of discovering talents and resources after hard work. However, some parents who lack the strength to learn think that sitting in the classroom and not going to work is the easiest thing in the world.
Is it her own problem that the girl's grades are getting worse every year? I think the behavior of some parents is frightening. Netizens summed it up very well, even when they are at work, there is always time to go home and rest, but if they encounter such oppressive parents, there is nowhere to escape.
It's naïve to think that if you repeat it, you'll get good grades. The approach of many parents is suffocating, and I believe most netizens can understand this. However, it should be reminded that those who hold this view are actually quite naïve.
In fact, most experienced high school teachers do not recommend that they choose to repeat easily, unless there are serious mistakes in the exam, and the gap with their own strength is too great.
In addition, repeaters are often under more pressure to enter the exam room than freshers. Even if you study for another year, it doesn't mean that you can make a qualitative leap, especially if you have limited personal abilities.
Taking a step back, even if you have the strength, some candidates belong to the stage fright type and usually perform well in exams, but they are prone to nervousness at critical moments, which is often caused by excessive psychological pressure.
In conclusion, a student's future is not only determined by the results of the college entrance examination, although the grades are important, parents should not be confused. We should do our best and do what we can.
Topic: Is there anything you would like to say to a girl or her parents?