Visiting relatives and friends during the Spring Festival is a must-have item, it's okay to be a guest, give some gifts, say a few auspicious words, pat your ass and leave after eating; It's not so comfortable when you're the master, especially when the seven aunts and eight aunts come to visit with their "divine beasts".As a young person in the family, you have to stay with the children, both as playmates and as nanniesIn case you encounter a group of "bear children" whose heads are all big.
I believe that most of the children who come out of family education are sensible, but it cannot be ruled out that the long-term pampering of some "bear parents" has led to the "bear children" having a stubborn personality, being self-centered in everything, and not caring about the feelings of others. There are many cases in societyFor example, last year, a girl was harassed by a "bear child" on the high-speed train, and she couldn't help but complain a few words before being slapped by the child's parents.
"Bear children" can still be so arrogant in the face of strangers, and they are obviously more unscrupulous when they go to relatives' homes, in the final analysis, they know that there is a parent behind them. In the face of the "siege of bear children", some netizens said that they really have no solution, and they don't want to hurt their harmony during the New Year. How is it good?
I believe that many people have experienced such embarrassment during the Chinese New Year, and some people even directly "ask for help" on social **I hope you will hurry up and say a few good ways to "break through" from the "bear child" pileI happen to have experience in this area, and I would like to share with you some coping routines.
First, do what you like.
"Bear Kids" are children after all, and there are always things they like, boys like Ultraman, game consoles, etc., and girls like dolls, snacks, etc. You can prepare some small toys, dolls or snacks in advance, before the "bear children" make a big fuss about the "heavenly palace", they will be distributed to themEstablish a strong friendship with them, and most children will take what you say seriously when the relationship is in place.
In addition to material rewards, you can also carry out spiritual encouragement, and you can be a worker who has been painting cakes by the boss for a year, and I believe that my ability to draw cakes will not be too bad. You can boast about the child,When facing a girl, he said that he was beautiful, and he must be a big beauty when he grows up; The boy boasted that he was smart, he must be the "child king", and he was a good helper for adults.
Second, each break.
If it's just a child, it won't be a climate, I'm afraid that I'm afraid of gathering together to form a joint force, and it will be difficult to control the scene in the face of a group of "bear children" at the same time. At this time, you can adopt the strategy of each breakthrough and disintegrate it from the inside.
You can desperately praise one of the children, saying that he is different from other children, especially sensible and smart, and the children who are praised are easy to flutter, forming a feeling that they are different from others, and take the initiative to break away from the "bear child" group. Then he praised another child, saying that he was also good, and when two or three small groups were formed, the big group would crack, and in order to gain the appreciation of the adults, they would start "infighting". Finally, focus all your energy on dealing with the naughtiest "bear child", and even with the help of other children.
Third, attack its weaknesses.
Generally speaking, the academic performance of "bear children" is not very good, and they are most afraid to talk about their situation in school, so we can go the other way and lead the topic to academic performance. For example, ask the "bear children" how their final exam results are, whether they have completed their winter vacation homework, etc. Once the "bear child" hears these topics, he will often avoid them, and even take the initiative to stay away from "unclear" adults like you, and deliberately do not talk to you. Isn't that what we're trying to achieve?
You can also do a little more and take the initiative to take on the task of tutoring the homework of the "bear child"."Fake and fake" to give them a lecture"Bear child" is afraid that he will not want to come to you even more. In addition, this trick may win the hearts of parents, who will feel that you care about your child's academic performance.
Fourth, take precautions.
During the Spring Festival, relatives and friends came to visit with their children, and it was okay to hurt a littleI am most afraid of encountering "broken peace", and when "bear children" laugh and play, they should not be careless and ruin the valuable or special meaning things in the houseIn the face of relatives, it is difficult to make difficulties, let alone open up a claim, so I can only break my teeth and swallow it in my stomach. In case the "bear child" bumps into it because of this, he has to apologize to others, and he suffers a double crit of material and spirit, not to mention how bad it is.
In order to prevent this from happening, you have to make a plan in advance, put up the easily damaged Dong ** the night before, or even lock it, keep the key by yourself, and completely isolate the risk.
The above four tricks should be enough to deal with the "bear child", you can collect this article as a self-help guide at home during the Spring Festival.
In fact, the vast majority of children are not as stubborn as they imagined, even if they are naughty and mischievous, they will be restrained after pointing it out, so they don't need to be too tolerant, just say it. Of course, if the luck is too bad and there are "bear parents" among the relatives, then you have to use "routines".
On the other hand, parents should take responsibility for educating their childrenUsually, you must not spoil your child too much, and let them become the character traits and ways of doing things they want. "The son does not teach the father's fault", when it should be educated, it may be educated by the society in the future, and there are many hard stubbles in the society, they do not have so many concerns like relatives and friends, and once they "educate" the children themselves who suffer.
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