After the New Year, I am about to enter my fifth year of full-time baby-raising and my second year of freelancing.
I started my freelancing attempt at the end of 2022, and I have written nearly 1.5 million words in more than a year and earned tens of thousands of yuan, which is enough for my own expenses, and I don't have to speculate about when he will transfer money to me.
Immerse yourself in reading, write hard, comb the emotions that others can't understand into words, and spend your spare time with the baby to explore inward, which can really quietly generate energy, no longer be too anxious and depressed, and no longer pin emotional needs on men's attitudes, pay attention to inner growth, and people become more peaceful and firm.
In 2024, I hope to run my own business, build a stable internal order, and become my strongest dock.
1. Use longer-term patience to do the work at hand
At present, the main income** is still the cooperation of copywriting and manuscripts, there is a manuscript fee for writing, and there is no manuscript fee if you don't write.
This year, I want to be more patient and do something that will benefit you in the long run.
Strive to do self-improvement, sincerely output valuable things, if I can make it stronger one day, I want to help some mothers who are as confused and anxious as I once was.
Finish writing a long ** in my hand, the current data is very poor, but I will have a beginning and an end, and I believe that there will be new surprises after writing a long book.
I want to try ** shooting and live broadcasting, after all, these have long been trends, even if I am very introverted and socially afraid, I still want to try to challenge and break through myself.
2. Construct a comfortable life order
Exercise and reading are still things to do.
Stop socializing for the sake of socializing, and spend more ineffective social time on self-improvement or solitude.
Continue to streamline your life and save money, and no longer to delight yourself by feeding your material desires, but to derive joy from spiritual enrichment.
Concentrate on work when you are working, and accompany your children wholeheartedly.
3. Continue to be aware and grow inwardly
When I was a child, I was enough to be a "child of someone else's family", and after marriage, I was enough to be a "virtuous and empathetic so-and-so", and after the age of 34, I just wanted to live in a way that was comfortable in my heart.
Allow yourself to be selfish, self-willed, and unreasonable......No longer take care of everyone's expectations, no longer live only for a worldly compliment, pay attention to your own feelings, care about your family and don't interfere in the name of love.
Last year, I began to gain something from being aware of my emotions, and this year I want to continue to build a more stable inner order through reading, solitude, review, and study.
In 2024, I will not be confused for the time being, and I will run forward bravely after determining the direction, and the long road will be long and bright, looking forward to the future.