Happy, Taeyeon.
Do the little things that will make you happy, and use small happiness to smooth out a bad day.
——*Yong
Start by respecting your own feelings and needs.
I read a little story on the Internet: In the restaurant, the little girl was eating, and at this time, there were only two pieces of meat left on the plate, one large and one small.
The mother sitting next to her said to the little girl, "I also want to eat meat, which piece of meat do you want to give to your mother?"
The little girl said, "I'll give you the little one, I want to eat the big one." ”
Surprisingly, instead of blaming the child, the mother praised her:
Baby, you're doing the right thing! Remember that sharing is about giving what you have to others and not giving what you already need to others, thus wronging yourself. ”
I also think this mom is amazing! From a young age, we are taught to know how to share and to give good things to others ......
But no one has ever taught us to respect our own needs and feelings first!
Living in this world, we don't need to be too sensible, and people who are too sensible are often the first to be abandoned.
If you're not happy, everything is empty.
The essence of life is to be happy, and if you don't live happily, then what's the point?
So, be sure to stay away from people and things that make you unhappy.
In reality, there will always be people who advise you to be generous, sensible, and think about the overall situation......
However, they just don't think about your interests and don't consider your feelings.
Obviously, they are asking for you and disturbing you, but you don't agree with them, and in the end it seems that you still owe them.
My advice to this is: don't be embarrassed, those who are embarrassed to embarrass you are not good people.
If you are too accommodating, others will become even worse; If you are too tolerant, others will gain an inch.
It's not easy for anyone in this world, no one owes anyone, and you have no reason to wronged yourself for the sake of others.
It's all about making yourself happy.
Singer Deng Ziqi said: "I think you can be busy or tired, but you can't be unhappy, if you are not happy, you will feel that I am really unmotivated every day." ”
But if you're happy, no matter how busy and tired you are, you'll still be motivated to do what you're going to do! ”
People, don't always think about how to please others, it's not your responsibility to make others happy.
However, making yourself happy is a lifelong must-have!
No matter what the situation, we should take happiness as the background color of life and face life with a positive and optimistic attitude.
I hope you can be brave, don't care too much about the eyes and evaluations of others, have the courage to be hated, and be yourself boldly;
I also hope that you will become more confident, look at yourself with more appreciation, and give yourself more encouragement and affirmation;
I hope someone can say to you: your happiness is more important than right or wrong!
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