Going to the grave isTraditional Chinese CultureMediumSacrificeAn activity of the deceased, usually inSacrificeFestivals, festivals and festivals are held. This activity is not complicated and generally requires the preparation of offerings, incense, candles and drinks, which are carried out at the grave of the deceasedSacrificeto express the feeling of missing a loved one. The forms of ancestor worship can be roughly divided into three types: cemeteriesSacrifice, family sacrifices and remote sacrifices. CemeterySacrificeis the most common way, which is to go to the burial place of the ancestors; The family memorial is performed on the tablet of the deceasedSacrifice；The remote sacrifice is to go to some fields or rivers, facing the direction of the ancestral cemetery in the hometown, holding incense as a pour, and respectfully inviting the ancestors to enjoySacrifice
The original text has already mentioned the saying "three people do not go to the grave, and the descendants will be prosperous", which mainly refers to the cemeterySacrificeThis way. So, who are the "three"? First of all, the elderly do not have to go to the grave. In China, people over the age of 70 are called "ancient rarity", and most of the elderly children and grandchildren are full at this timeSacrificeAncestral matters can be handled by descendants. When the elderly are old, they are easily touched and saddened, so they prefer to enjoy their lives at home, not to cause trouble to their children, and let their children bear the burdenSacrificeresponsibility.
Secondly, sons-in-law do not often go to the grave. There is a saying in the countryside: "The daughter goes to the grave and has no queen, and the son-in-law goes to the grave and dies." The meaning of this sentence is that if a family has only girls and no boys, then girls can go to the grave instead, but it is more important for the boy to go to the grave. The son-in-law is usually regarded as an outsider in the traditional concept, and the family is in tattersSacrificeIf there are none, it means that the family is in a difficult situation. Therefore, it is relatively rare for a son-in-law to go to the grave, especially when the father-in-law and mother-in-law are alive, and it is rare to see the son-in-law go in personSacrificeScene from the grave.
Finally, children are not allowed to go to graves under the age of five. This is easier to understand because children at this age are easily frightened by all kinds of shocks, and they are still in a period of ignorance and need to be cared for. InSacrificeIn the process, firecrackers and other sounds are usually set off, which can be very scary for children. Moreover,SacrificeIt is a more solemn and heavy ceremony, and the naughty and unrestrained nature of children at this time can easily appear inappropriate and disrespectful.
Different regionsSacrificeThe customs may vary, but the purpose is the same, in this way, it is hoped that in this way we will remember our deceased loved ones and at the same time educate the next generation to honor their elders. We should cherish the people in front of us and honor our elders, instead of waiting until we lose them to regret it. It is only through the transmission and promotion of these traditionsCultureso that we can better understand our roots.
SacrificeThe activity is:Traditional Chinese CultureIt is not only the remembrance of the deceased loved ones, but also the respect for the ancestors and the traditionCultureThe legacy. In my eyes,SacrificeThe event is a solemn and warm ceremony.
AnnualQingming Festival, my family will go to worship the graves of their ancestors. Early in the morning, we prepare various offerings in advance, including fruits, pastries, drinks, etc., and light incense candles to prepare for the cemetery. Along the way, the relatives walked silently, and their hearts were full of thoughts and nostalgia for their deceased relatives. When we arrive at the cemetery, we will arrange the offerings neatly and pay respects to the deceased. After that, relatives will take turns to offer wine to express their respect and longing for their ancestors. Throughout the process, we were in awe and silently thanked our ancestors for their nurturing and care.
In addition to cemetery worship, we also have ancestral tablets in our homes, and we also perform family sacrifices on worship days and important festivals. At this time, we will place the ancestors' ** at home, put offerings, and light incense and candles, and the family will sit together and work togetherSacrifice。The atmosphere of the family festival is more warm and solemn, and relatives will recite it togetherSacrificial texts, telling the thoughts and gratitude of the ancestors.
Except for the cemeterySacrificeand family sacrifices, my family will also have the tradition of remote sacrifices. Every year during the Dragon Boat Festival, in the early morning, we will go to the river, in the direction of our hometown, to the cemetery of our ancestors. At this time, we will also prepare incense candles, drinks and a bouquet of fresh foodFlowers, to give the most sincere love to the ancestors.
For our family,SacrificeThe event is an important tradition, but also a tribute and remembrance to the ancestors. Every worship has strengthened our recognition and responsibility for our family. At the same time, it also made me understand the importance of honoring my elders and cherishing and caring for my loved ones.
SacrificeThe activity is inTraditional Chinese CultureIt is not only an expression of remembrance for deceased loved ones, but also a reflection of people's ancestors and traditionsCultureRespect and inheritance. SacrificeThe event has the following meanings and values.
First of all,SacrificeThe event is a remembrance and remembrance of a deceased loved one. PassedSacrifice, we can show our respect and gratitude to our deceased loved ones. SacrificeThe event brought relatives together to remember their deceased loved ones and inspired us to miss and remember our loved ones deeply.
Secondly,SacrificeThe activity is a sign of respect and reverence for ancestors. InTraditional Chinese CultureAncestors are regarded as the soul and foundation of the family, and they set an example and norms for future generations, and play an important role in the development of the family. SacrificeThe event is a celebration of gratitude and respect for our ancestors, and through worshipping our ancestors, we pay high tribute to them, so that future generations can also be nourished and carried forward from the spiritual power of our ancestors.
Again,SacrificeActivities are traditionalCultureThe inheritance and promotion of the . SacrificeThe event carries a rich traditionCultureconnotation, including worship ritualsSacrificial texts, genealogy, etc., through the transmission of generations, these traditionsCultureIt is perpetuated and propagated. SacrificeThe activity is to nurture future generations on traditionCultureAn important way of awareness of identity and customs, letThe younger generationKnow and respect yourself moreCultureRoot.
Finally,SacrificeActivities are also important for family unity and cohesion**. InSacrificeevent,Family membersComing together, participating in worship services together, and remembering loved ones who have passed away, this exchange of shared experiences and emotions helps to reinforceFamily membersA sense of cohesion and solidarity between them. Family membersIn the common participationSacrificeIn the process of the activity, they cultivate the quality of mutual assistance and tolerance, and cherish and care for their relatives more.
In short,SacrificeThe activity is:Traditional Chinese CultureIt carries the remembrance and nostalgia for the deceased loved ones, the respect and reverence for the ancestors, and the traditionsCultureThe inheritance and promotion of the . And each of us should cherish the people in front of us, honor our elders, and don't wait until everything is over to regret it. By participatingSacrificeactivities, we can not only feel the power of family affection and love, but also understand and inherit our ownCultureRoot. Let's cherish the tradition togetherCultureThe treasures of the inheritance and promotion of the meaning and value of the sacrificial activities.