Recently, a series of student jumping tragedies occurred in Tianjin, which shocked the society. Behind these tragedies is a cause for concernEducationReflections on the current situation and family issues. Factors such as academic pressure, family "insecurity" and an unhealthy learning environment are all causes of children's psychological problems. How to let children grow up healthily and learn happily has become an urgent problem to be solved. This article will start with families andSchoolsTwo dimensions, how to create a good environment for children to grow up.
In the process of children's growth, family is their most important support and warm harbor. However, in some families, there are various problems that bring great psychological pressure to children. First of all, the "mutilation" of the family is an important reason. The lack of parental love and care in the family makes children feel lonely and helpless. Domestic violence and conflict also hurt the hearts of children, who are unable to feel the warmth and joy of the family, but only bear a huge burden.
For some parents, they only pursue academic performance for the sake of their children's future and interests, which has a huge impact on their children's stress. They excessively pursue high grades, recklessly force their children to study, and even inflict corporal punishment and verbal abuse on their children at every turn. SuchEducationMethods not only fail to stimulate children's interest and motivation to learn, but can also make them feel stressed and anxious.
Looking back on my childhood, although I also faced study pressure and family conflicts, I was fortunate to have a family that supported and accompanied me. My parents not only gave me love and understanding, but also encouraged me to develop hobbies and interests. It is this kind of family environment that allows me to face difficulties with positive and optimistic attitudes, overcome challenges in my studies, and finally embark on the road to success.
In addition to the family,SchoolsIt is also an important place for children to grow up. However, nowadays someSchoolsofEducationThe method still focuses on utilitarianism and competition orientation, and ignores the cultivation of children's comprehensive quality and healthy development. Excessive academic pressure and lack of proper rest time and space for physical and mental relaxation make the child's learning burden too heavy and unbearable.
At the same time,SchoolsThere is also some unhealthy competition. Comparing grades and paying attention to scores has led to a damper on children's self-esteem and self-confidence. In this competitive environment, it is difficult for children to maintain a happy and innocent attitude, and gradually lose their love and interest in learning.
In order to create a healthy learning environment for children,SchoolsAttention should be paid to the mindEducationand all-round development. It is necessary to focus not only on cultivating students' academic abilities, but also on their emotions andMental health。PassedEmotional education, humanistic care, etc., so that children can feelSchoolsThe warmth and care of the people who develop their emotional intelligence and social skills.
In addition,SchoolsIt should be reasonably arrangedCoursesand homework to give students plenty of time to rest and relax. Especially for elementary school students, it should not be too early to join outside the classroomCram schoolsand various interest training, protect their childhood, give them plenty of free time, and let them enjoy the process of happy learning.
A child's growth needs a family andSchoolsjoint efforts. For parents, they should pay more attention to their children's emotional needs, give them full care and support, and create a warm and harmonious family atmosphere. Schoolsneeds to changeEducationway, focusing on the mindEducationand all-round development to provide a healthy learning environment for children.
Through the family andSchoolsWe believe that we can help children grow up better and have a happy and healthy learning experience. Only in such an environment can children face the future with confidence and vitality, and achieve their dreams and goals.