Growing up, awkward conversations with our parents were inevitable. If there's anything more embarrassing than watching TV with your parents and seeing *** pictures, it's talking to your parents about your sexual experiences. However, this topic is usually actively avoided because it is embarrassing and even embarrassing to talk about. Sometimes, however, parents touch on the topic out of concern or temptation. Faced with this situation, we often feel anxious and embarrassed, don't know how to respond, and even want to find a hole to get into. In fact, we don't have to panic too much, because it's justlifeis just a common embarrassing scene. Next, let me join you in the personal experience of several netizens and their parents about sexual experiences, which may allow us to face similar situations more calmly.
Netizen Yuanyuan, 21 years old, is a college student. During a small long vacation, she went out with her boyfriend, and she was still outside at night, and when she received her mother's **ask about living in **, before she could make up an excuse, her mother realized the fact that she and her boyfriend spent the night outside. Mom said to herself on the other end of the **: "It's over, it's over, I must have slept." Immediately afterward, her mother told her to protect herself. Later, after returning home, my mother directly sent her a set of QQ underwear, and said to her: "Young man, it's also this age, I hope you can please yourself and make yourself happy, this is just a manifestation of the love between two people who are in love, it should be a very beautiful and pleasant thing, as long as you protect yourself and pay attention to safety." Yuanyuan felt that her mother was very open-minded at the time, but she didn't dare to mention it to her old father.
Yuanyuan's story provokes us to think. Parents adopt different attitudes and reactions to their children's sexual experiences. Some parents may have a restrictive and disciplined attitude, trying to curb their children's sexual behavior through education, fearing that they will become delinquent youth. Yuanyuan's mother, on the other hand, showed an open and understanding attitude, believing that it was a beautiful thing for two people who were in love with each other to love each other, as long as they took care to protect themselves. This idea of openness and understanding in the presentSocialis becoming more and more important. In conversations with parents, we should understand their concerns and try to share our thoughts and feelings with them to achieve mutual understanding and respect.
How should we respond to the concern and temptation of our parents? First of all, we need to stay calm and calm, and we don't need to feel panicked and embarrassed. Next, we can try to take the initiative to communicate openly with our parents and share our own knowledge and attitudes about sexuality. Of course, in this process, we must also respect the opinions and perspectives of our parents, and be considerate and tolerant of each other. In having such a conversation, we can start from the following aspects:
When we have sex with our parents, we should have the right understanding and attitude. Sex is a natural topic, a part of life, and we shouldn't be ashamed of it. We can share our understanding and knowledge of sexuality with our parents and try to eliminate their concerns and worries about our sexual experiences.
Our parents' primary concern is our safety. When talking about sexual experiences, we can emphasize to our parents our awareness and ability to protect ourselves, telling them that we will use itCondomsand so on to protect your health and safety.
Parents often have feelings of worry and apprehension, which is out of concern and love for us. We need to understand their position and try to put ourselves in their shoes. When we have sexual conversations with our parents, we need to respond to their concerns in a rational and understanding manner, and not to escalate the conflict.
Everyone has a different cultural background and attitudes, and we have to respect the views of our parentsValues, trying to understand and accept their opinions. If we have different points of view, we can try to communicate equally and democratically, listening to and understanding each other.
Through the above communication, we can promote the flow of sexual relations between parents and children, eliminate embarrassment and confusion, and enhance understanding and trust between both parties.
We often feel embarrassed and distressed when confronted with a conversation with our parents about sexual experiences. However, embarrassment and distress are not our only options. Through proactive communication and understanding, we can share our thoughts and feelings with our parents, and increase mutual understanding and trust. When talking about sexual experiences, we need to stay calm and calm, treat sex properly, and insist on keeping ourselves safe. At the same time, we should also respect the opinions and perspectives of parents and promote the flow of rationality between the two parties. Through this communication, we can build a more open and understanding family atmosphere, which can add a beautiful color to the relationship between ourselves and our parents. Let us bravely face embarrassment, communicate with parents with a rational and mature attitude, and work together to create a more harmonious and open family environment.