Some people are as kind as they are to outsiders, but they will lose control of their emotions when they treat their family members, in fact, it is not difficult to solve as long as they find the root cause behind it.
1. Pampering will unconsciously lead to unscrupulousness
The preference between relatives will eventually lead to fearlessness, the easier it is to be pampered, the more pampered and spoiled, even if you are angry with your relatives, you will be tolerated by your relatives, and tolerance is connivance in disguise. However, outsiders are different, outsiders will neither back down, nor will they take responsibility, whether they are angry with outsiders or angry with outsiders, they will offend outsiders, and then be hated by outsiders.
Netizen message: I often get angry with my relatives, just because I know that there is no cost, and my relatives will tolerate me again and again, which makes me have the illusion that it is reasonable to be angry, but I stop when I go out, just because no one outside the house will get used to me, and I will suffer blows from time to time.
Comments: Although venting your emotions in front of your relatives, you have no scruples and don't have to bear the corresponding consequences, but you will still directly or indirectly hurt your relatives, so you should try your best to be calm and communicate with your relatives, after all, your relatives are the best people who love you.
2. Ignoring the disappointment and chill of loved ones
Some people talk and laugh with outsiders, but when they come home, they are not only arrogant and domineering to their families, but also angry with their families, counting their family members with cold words, and finding fault with their family members, but they don't know that the consequences have followed, even if they are close to their family members, they will become disappointed and chilling.
Netizen message: Now my relationship with my relatives is not as good as before, even if I am angry with my relatives, my relatives do not have the same knowledge as me, I can also feel the disappointment and chill of my relatives towards me, maybe my relatives think I am unreasonable.
Comments: Relatives don't need to please, but they must be carefully maintained, not ruined, let alone practiced, if the attitude is cold, it is not a quarrel or a fight, and the family relationship will be torn apart sooner or later. It is a great fate to be able to become a relative in this life, so you should learn to be grateful and be kind to your relatives in order to avoid disappointment and chilling for your relatives.
3. It is the most difficult to educate your relatives as kindly as possible
In fact, as long as you restrain your temper, neither get angry nor yell, get along with your relatives calmly, and leave patience to your relatives, there will be fewer disputes between relatives, lively will replace loneliness, and family harmony will make it more likely that everything will be prosperous.
Netizen message: In the past, I was as polite as I was to outsiders, but I lacked patience with my relatives, but later I tried my best to restrain my temper and be more kind to my relatives, and now the family atmosphere is extremely harmonious and warm.
Comments: No matter when, or where, you need to restrain your bad temper, you can't leave the worst temper to outsiders, let alone leave the worst temper to your relatives.
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