Because of these 3 reasons:1I have been hurt by my family;2.Parents often quarrel;3.Excessive spoiling and care.
Family, this warm word, often carries our laughter and tears, and is the most profound chapter of our life journey.
It is both a source of strength and a shackle to the mind.
Those who have been hurt in their families often have their inner world full of conflicts and struggles. Parents' expectations, comparisons, and interferences, although intended to be love, can cause deep harm to the child. This kind of injury, like a sting in the **, stabs the child's heart from time to time, making their performance at home full of defense and resistance.
The quarrel between parents is undoubtedly another impact on the psychology of children.
Children do not understand why their dearest parents communicate in this way, they are confused, frightened, and even blame themselves. Children in this kind of family environment often plant the seeds of uneasiness in the depths of their hearts, and they do not know how to deal with this emotional fluctuation, so they choose to escape, to escape into the shell of indifference.
Excessive doting and care may seem to be a great care for children, but in fact it may have a long-term negative impact on children.
When children are Xi used to being satisfied, Xi to being the center of attention, their minds may become fragile and self-centered. Once they encounter a setback, they may not be able to accept it, thus turning the spearhead of their emotions to their parents, becoming cold and irritable.
Write at the end. We need to learn to express our emotions and gratitude. We also need to learn how to express our thoughts and feelings to our loved ones and avoid unnecessary misunderstandings and conflicts. Only when we truly understand and accept the complexity of family relationships can we truly find the strength of the family and truly experience the warmth of the family.