Life is a drama full of wonders, but on the stage of feelings, you need to choose your actors carefully. Su Qin said, "There is no need to invite too many people into your life. This "too many people" has five kinds of relationship cancer. Don't just open the door and let them in! He said.
Watch out for your "neighbors" and stay away from gossipy "roommates".
Good neighbors are like family, but not all neighbors are like you. A "roommate" who likes to gossip, digs into your privacy, and jokes after dinner may cause more problems when you come in. Choose to establish a close friendship with a simple, warm neighbor in order to truly enjoy each other and live a happy life.
Even among "relatives", those who hate the poor and love the rich should keep their distance.
Blood is thicker than water, and relatives are connected by blood. But relatives who despise the poor and love the rich will ignore you when you encounter difficulties, but will greet you with a smile when you succeed. Such relationships are not based on real emotions, so smart people should detect early and keep an appropriate distance so as not to become an obstacle or stepping stone.
Classmates are affectionate, but be careful not to speculate.
Friendships in school used to be the purest, but as life experiences increased, the relationship gradually drifted apart. There is no need to try to maintain an estranged relationship between classmates, and saying goodbye with a smile may be the best way to do it. You can only find your true best friend by choosing to build deep friendships with like-minded people who resonate with you wholeheartedly.
Even among "colleagues", stay away from those "friends" who cause trouble.
Colleagues are work partners, but not everyone values harmony. At work, some colleagues may cause trouble behind your back, or suppress you behind your back. Only by keeping a proper distance away from colleagues who will only cause trouble can you continue to do your job better.
Beware of hypocrisy in Friends.
True friendships are supposed to be valuable, but some friends only show up when they get a benefit and stay away when they really need help. Such fake friends will only waste your time and money. Instead of wasting energy, it is better to slowly get rid of the relationship and find a friend who is really good to you.
Life is short, so you need to know how to choose the people you spend time with. If you avoid relationship cancer and cultivate deep friendships with kind and honest people, you will live a happier and more fulfilling life. Leave a message to share your views on interpersonal relationships, discuss and grow together.