Years of husband divorced and in loveUncle Age.
If you like this article, please don't skimp on your "likes" and share your "views" in the comment area, which will be my motivation to move forward. A sudden love made Mr. Zhou deeply regretful.
His wife was attracted to a 50-year-old man and was reluctant to return to him, even if it was a man 15 years older than her.
Why is a 50-year-old uncle so charming, which makes many "single dogs" sigh to themselves? What's the secret?
Somehow, Mr. Zhou offered to divorce Ms. Chen, promising to get rid of the suspicious problem, and Ms. Chen also promised not to chat with strange netizens again, and the two parties agreed to wait until the correction before remarrying.
Unexpectedly, Ms. Chen readily agreed, and the two quickly went through the divorce procedures, but they still lived together after getting the divorce certificate and continued to live as husband and wife. Recently, however, Mr. Chow discovered that Ms. Chan had not relented, and Ms. Chan, who had lost the constraints of her marriage, seemed to have become more presumptuous in chatting with the opposite sex.
Mr. Zhou's suspicions proved to be correct, and Ms. Chen was picked up by a married man who was 15 years older than her.
Mr. Chow believes that his married life with Ms. Chan has always been normal, except for an extra divorce certificate. He always believed that they were still husband and wife until Ms. Chen refused his request to remarry because of another man, which made him realize that Ms. Chen had broken their promise.
In his view, Ms. Chen's behavior amounted to cheating.
Mr. Zhou was puzzled and lost in front of a 50-year-old Xiao, as far as he knew, Xiao's wife and daughter were engaged in business, while he himself stayed alone in his hometown in Hunan to make a living by officiating weddings and funerals.
What surprised him even more was that Lao Xiao's hometown had just been expropriated and received hundreds of thousands of demolition money. Mr. Zhou said that Ms. Chen has been completely attracted to the other party, and now she is not willing to go home at all, and even cares less about her children.
Could it be that Ms. Chen's change of heart is for Lao Xiao's money?
Ms. Chen vehemently denied that she had any illicit relationship with Lao Xiao, but she admitted that Lao Xiao had indeed been pursuing her, and stressed that there was nothing impure between the two.
Ms. Chen said that she and Mr. Zhou have been married for 14 years, but during this time, Mr. Zhou has never made any substantial contributions to her. She said that she has been earning money on her own to support her family, and even has to subsidize the family.
Ms. Chan was very unhappy with Mr. Zhou's irresponsible attitude towards the family. For years, she has endured Mr. Zhou's suspicions and suspicions. The most unacceptable thing for her is that Mr. Zhou, without any evidence, actually called Lao Xiao's spouse and accused her of becoming Lao Xiao's "junior" for no reason.
Ms. Chan, who accused Mr. Chow of disgrace in public, asked Mr. Chow if they could restore their old relationship. Mr. Zhou believes that in addition to many accusations against him, Ms. Chen is turning a blind eye to her relationship with Lao Xiao.
However, the evidence in his hands showed that Ms. Chen did have an affair with Xiao Lao, because Ms. Chen bought a new car shortly after leaving him, which was the down payment that Xiao helped her pay.
In Mr. Zhou's opinion, it was Lao Xiao's intervention that caused Ms. Chen's attitude to be so resolute, so did Lao Xiao really pursue Ms. Chen recklessly?
Lao Xiao was vague about his relationship with Ms. Chen, insisting that there was no relationship between them and saying that he would not involve him in the divorce dispute between Mr. Zhou and Ms. Chen.
Lao Xiao also assured that he had an in-depth understanding of the law and would not commit the crime of "bigamy", and that he and Ms. Chen were just close friends. However, Mr. Zhou did not believe the words of the two of them, he thought that they were on the same page, and in order to prove the extraordinary relationship between them, Mr. Zhou showed a ** recording, which was discovered by Lao Xiao's daughter in **.
Mr. Zhou learned that Lao Xiao's daughter told him in ** that people in his hometown claimed that Lao Xiao was often with a woman, and Ms. Chen's daughter said with great certainty that Lao Xiao had taken Ms. Chen home, and the two were suspected of having a relationship.
Although Mr. Zhou already knew that Ms. Chen had betrayed him, he still hoped to save Ms. Chen, and he came to Ms. Chen's home, hoping that through Ms. Chen's family, she would change her mind and stop destroying other people's families.
Ms. Chen's mother strongly supported her departure from Mr. Chow. She compared Mr. Zhou to An Jiahe in the TV series "Don't Talk to Strangers", pointing out that his personality is extreme, and he is suspicious all day long, causing great trouble to her daughter's life.
Mr. Zhou is extremely controlling, and even once committed domestic violence against his daughter, but he was never able to change this behavior. The old man believed that the reason why Mr. Zhou did this was because he loved Ms. Chen too much, which led to his low self-confidence and too much surveillance and control of Ms. Chen.
However, this behavior eventually led to psychological problems and excesses. Mr. Zhou is also trying his best to change himself, but Ms. Chen's activity outside makes him feel insecure.
Now it turns out that Ms. Chen's behavior does exist, not because of his excessive suspicion, but because of his true love for Ms. Chen. If Ms. Chen didn't play ambiguous and didn't change her mind, would he really be so tight with her?
Ms. Chen firmly chose to leave Mr. Zhou, and chose the old Xiao who would hurt her and not let her down. She knew that Mr. Zhou was a person who did not seek progress, and was only satisfied with a salary of 3,000 yuan a month, living a life like a retired old man.
After work, he only cares about enjoyment and never thinks about the pressure of family. After being married for many years, he is still gnawing at his parents, and his life is poor, but he is content with the status quo and has no responsibility as a man.
Such a Mr. Zhou made her feel very chilled.
Ms. Chan was extremely disappointed with Mr. Zhou, questioning his lack of caring, romance and responsibility, and even questioning him: "Why should I stay with you when you have nothing?" ”
Ms. Chen said that even without Lao Xiao's appearance, her relationship with Mr. Zhou would have come to this point. However, Mr. Zhou was reluctant to let Ms. Chen leave, and was even willing to refund the down payment given to Ms. Chen by Lao Xiao and bear the monthly payment to express his sincere feelings for Ms. Chen.
Despite this, Ms. Chen resolutely refused, because she thought that Mr. Zhou was too stingy and did not know how to be romantic, while Lao Xiao quietly prepared a surprise for her. Ms. Chen made it clear that even if she was not with Lao Xiao, she would not remarry Mr. Zhou again, because she wanted to live for herself once.
Mr. Chow needs to reflect on the gap between his expectations of Ms Chan and the reality that has disappointed and alienated Ms Chan. His introversion and low self-esteem made it impossible for him to communicate effectively with Ms. Chen, which made her have to face the difficulties of life alone.
And his excessive caution and control have invisibly pushed Ms. Chen to the outside world. In her pursuit of her own happiness, Ms. Chan also takes into account the boundaries of morality and other people's families.
At the same time, this story also teaches us that a successful man needs to have performance and self-confidence in order to be proud in front of his partner.