Proverbs of Love: Governor, Qualitative, Choose Dreams, Meet People, Choose Cities, and End Your Life. This series is the author's years of experience and the accumulation of reading, all the paragraphs have no logical progressive relationship, basically separate paragraphs, you can skip to read. A single sentence is a story and an insight. Maybe you can feel one of the sentences, or maybe the whole article will make you taste like chewing wax for nothing, let it be.
I know a young girl who said that there is no fixed template for life, what others tell us is just a reference, if you don't want to do it, just listen to the voice of your heart and don't miss the fleeting intuition. I think she is very brave and persistent in her life. However, happy families are all similar, and unhappy families have their own misfortunes. Life is not a template, but human nature is similar, everyone wants to live a different life, but few people can get out of the trap of public life, this is a life experience, but also the sadness of human nature, it is difficult to easily avoid.
Wilde also said: "Too many people live not like themselves, their thoughts are other people's opinions, life is the imitation of others, and feelings are other people's quotations." "Yes, I think it's sad, but there's a prerequisite for living like yourself, and that is that your mind has to have a certain height and depth. If a person often defends and rebels against reality based on intuition, over time, you will become a real but uneducated person. Needless consumption of truths that have been proven by predecessors, making interpersonal relationships more and more chaotic and bad, and insisting on the so-called self, is not actually the pursuit of the true self, but a waste of life in another sense.
Sticking to the bottom line puts us to death and then lives. The pain of nirvana is as deep as the joy of being born again. The bottom line is a game of the brave, often the bottom line will not make us happy immediately, but it will make us live with more dignity, and in the long life experience, dignity is the ultimate happiness. When you learn to stick to the bottom line, others can learn to stop before your bottom line. When you learn to stick to the bottom line, when your youth comes to an end, and you look back suddenly, you will not hold a bad card in your hand. However, what we need to understand is, where does this bottom line come from? How is it tailor-made? How to be convinced?
Loneliness:From birth to growth, a person is lonely at the beginning, and when we grow up, we will go to find our other half. In this process, most people will not succeed at the first time, and loneliness will be a normal state in our lives, and it is also a kind of freedom. With more freedom, one will seek the support of the heart. The vast majority of people, especially young people in their youth, instinctively look for love.
Ruffian Cai's "Peacock Forest" - who is nobler to give up a better life for the sake of love or to give up love for a better life? Love is usually sanctified by people, so the person who chooses love is also sacred. Is it just because the person who chooses the sheep chooses love that we think that the sentiment of the person who chooses the sheep is the most noble? Those who sacrifice everything for love will be celebrated; But people who sacrifice love for everything will probably be blamed to some extent.
Fearless loneliness. Because there must be someone in this world who is trying to come to you. Don't be in a hurry, the best will always come when you least expect it.
Love is the only thing in life that is truly precious, and it is also the only thing that is truly worth pursuing. As long as you have a loved one, you have the motivation and you can face the whole world.