In these years, marriage and love have not had much to do with each other, as long as both parties are not very annoying, the marriage can be maintained.
You just have to look around, and then look at ancient and modern China and foreign countries, the ideal situation of marriage and love completely overlapping is almost non-existent, and there are very few of them.
You will believe that a young woman in her twenties and thirties would really fall in love with an old man in her seventies and eighties; Do you really believe that those outrageous sibling relationships are really because of love?
Do you really believe that all married men and women are united by love? No, I don't believe it. I believe that in most cases, it is just that they can not hate each other and accept each other, which is far from the height of love.
Marriage is more about both men and women, each seeking the partner they need to live, whether it is reliable or not, whether it lasts or not, it depends more on the reason and self-cultivation of both parties!
Love is a subjective feeling that can be met but not sought, and it is not a thing that can exist for a long time. A truly high-quality marriage is more accurate when the other party is regarded as a family member or partner who is connected to you.
In a word, a good couple sees each other as family or partners, and sexual partnership comes second, not first. Marriage is mainly used to shelter from the wind and rain, not to sleep with each other.
If you ask a married man which woman he would most like to sleep with, it would certainly not be his wife; You have to ask a married woman which man she would most like to spend the night with, and this man must not be her own husband!
The world is imperfect, love is a luxury, not everyone can have it.
There are countless men and women in the world, how many people have really tasted love?
Not much, certainly not much. The author himself is in his early forties, whether it is himself or his friends, I dare to say that among the 10 couples, only one or two are really in love, this cannot be denied.
The other four or five pairs, that is, they live a so-so life, and they can't talk about love or not.
The other three or four couples, none of them at all, each has its own way, but I haven't heard of anyone clamoring for divorce. From an outsider's point of view, they are still husband and wife, and they talk and laugh together. But those who know them know that they have no ...... of love
There is love or not, as long as both of them are rational and cultivated people, they really don't delay their lives! Marriage