Title: "New Year's Wisdom: Don't Fight, Don't Ask, Don't Go, Have a Relaxed New Year!" 》
The New Year's bell rings, and laughter fills every family. At this festive time, we need some wisdom to make the Chinese New Year easier and more enjoyable. Let me share some "don't fight, don't ask, don't go" New Year's wisdom to make your New Year more in-depth.
Don't fight for the gambling game, hurt others and yourself.
At the end of the year, family and friends get together, and there are always some entertainment activities in everyone's laughter. But be careful not to turn the game into a gamble, and don't hurt your feelings by winning or losing. Chinese New Year should be a time of reunion and festivity, not a time to spoil the good atmosphere for the sake of a momentary victory.
Don't ask about privacy, just have a good chat.
When relatives and friends get together, everyone has their own story and life. When talking, avoid asking too many personal questions, especially sensitive topics such as income, marriage, romance, etc. Respect everyone's choice and privacy, communicate in a relaxed way and make the conversation more relaxed and pleasant.
Don't quarrel, don't care, show weakness to win.
During the Chinese New Year, families may have conflicts over some trivial matters. When dealing with family affairs, don't argue, don't care about winning or losing, and don't let the battle of words affect the atmosphere of the whole family. Moderate silence is not a sign of weakness, but an attempt to maintain family harmony. During the Chinese New Year, we should show tolerance and understanding and enjoy the joy of reunion together.
The New Year's flavor of the wise man is relaxed and warm.
When the ancients celebrated the New Year, they often expressed their feelings for the years and the pursuit of a happy life in their poems. We should also learn to cherish the happiness of the moment, and not to pursue material comparisons and contentions excessively. New Year's flavor should be a kind of wisdom, an attitude that knows how to let go of disputes and treat life lightly.
With the arrival of the New Year, let's put aside our quarrels, don't ask too much, and celebrate the New Year with wisdom. May every family have the taste of the New Year of the wise man and welcome the new year in a relaxed and happy way. I wish you all a happy and healthy New Year!