Don't look for those in the system? Many girls collectively complained about their boyfriends, and it was difficult to accept the truth
Don't you have an institution? "It's hard to accept that many girls, when they talk about their boyfriends, associate them with institutions
After graduating from university, faced with a brutal labor market, many people aim to become a civil servant. Rather than wandering around the company on a meager income, it seems more profitable to choose to enter the system and enjoy a stable job and relatively good pay.
Parents also support their children's entry into the civil service or public institutions, as it means a relatively stable life. However, although the system has always enjoyed a high social status, it is also dominated by some girls"Spit out", they have expressed their opinions, and even in the marriage market, the system has become the most parents"Spit out"one of the objects. Why is that?
College students first step onto college campuses with great ambitions and a desire to make a difference after graduation, but as time goes on, the brutal perception of the real world fades this enthusiasm. Approaching graduation, many people have taken a fancy to the public examination and **"Value for money", chose a stable life within the system.
However, there is a phenomenon that girls are becoming less and less interested in boys within the system, and even say"Don't look for boys in the system"！They even appealed:"Don't look for boys in the system! Some girls shared unpleasant experiences with boyfriends in the system, believing that the boys were too vain and that their outlook on life and worldview was very different.
Some girls meet boyfriends, although they are at a higher level in the unit, but they show an obvious sense of superiority, and even talk about her behind their backs, using work, work, and marriage as capital to show off their superiority. Such words and actions disgusted the girls and set off a series of ruptures.
Some girls shared similar experiences, arguing that boyfriends within the system tend to become arrogant, believing that they are unbeatable once they get a job. This makes the girls feel disgusted with their boyfriends in the system, thinking that instead of wasting time, it is better to avoid them as soon as possible.
However, it is important to point out that this is not the case for everyone who works in this system, and this is just an isolated case. I hope that everyone will not generalize and give each other a chance to understand. At the same time, the staff in the system should also adjust their mentality and avoid being too self-righteous, so as not to arouse the disgust of others.
While it takes a lot of effort to get a job within the system, it's important not to take too much pride in your success. After all, not everyone sees working within the system as the only criterion for success. Emotional intelligence is especially important when working within the system, and how to get along with leaders and colleagues is a skill that must be learned. Therefore, students should be humble, keep learning, improve their emotional intelligence, and avoid embarrassing situations because they don't know how to get along with others.
Today's topic: Can you accept a boyfriend who works within the system?
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