The way Bao Dai gets along with each other is often misunderstood, thinking that they are always quarreling and angry, and are always in a quarrel and a cold war. This may be a prejudice against Daiyu, but also between her and BaoyuEmotionMisreading of complexity. In fact, although the relationship between Bao Dai is full of contradictions and run-ins, there are also many warm and affectionate moments between them. Daiyu's spirituality and intelligence allow her to get to know Baoyu deeplyInner world, and Baoyu's deep love and infatuation for Daiyu are rare in the world. 《Dream of Red MansionsIt describes Baoyu's relationship with many women, such as Baochai, Raider,QingwenQin Keqingand so on, but only the relationship with Daiyu is most like a couple. In addition to quarrels and anger, there are also many warm and sweet moments between Baoyu and Daiyu.
In the afternoon, the sun shines through the curtains in Daiyu's room. The maids all went out to poop, and the room was silent. At this time, Baoyu gently lifted the soft embroidery curtain, walked into the inner room, and found Daiyu resting on the bed. He stepped forward and gently woke her up, telling her that it was not good to have just eaten lunch and go to bed. Daiyu opened her eyes and saw Baoyu, so she said, "You go out for a walk, I had a night of trouble a few days ago, and my body has not recovered, and my body is sore." Baoyu was reluctant to leave, and persuaded her, "The pain is a small thing, but sleeping is a big thing." I'll accompany you to relieve your boredom, and I'll just wait for you to get through the sleepiness. Daiyu closed her eyes and said, "I'm not sleepy, I just want to take a break, you can play elsewhere for a while." Baoyu pushed her and said, "I'll go **, I'll be bored when I meet others." Their daily relationship is such that people often mistakenly think that Bao Dai will always quarrel and apologize for each other. However, in fact, it is not uncommon for Bao Dai to get along like a couple like this.
In this story, Baoyu is worried that Daiyu lying down as soon as she eats is not conducive to digestion, so she deliberately accompanies her and diverts her attention while chatting. He smelled a strange aroma emanating from Daiyu, and they began to talkPowderof the topic. Daiyu jokingly said: "You have jade, and people have gold to match you; People have 'cold incense', so don't you have 'warm incense'? Baoyu was a little puzzled when she heard this, so she asked Daiyu: "What is 'warm incense'?" Daiyu nodded, sighed and said with a smile: "Stupid person, if you have jade, you will naturally have gold to match; If someone has a 'cold incense', you should have a 'warm incense' to match. Baoyu finally understood, so he smiled and said, "When you begged for mercy just now, you didn't speak so harshly." As he spoke, Baoyu stretched out his hand to scratch Daiyu's sensitive place, Daiyu laughed so hard that she couldn't breathe, and said, "Baoyu, I'm going to be angry if I make trouble again." After hearing this, Baoyu stopped and asked with a smile, "Aren't you going to continue joking with me?" Daiyu smiled and said, "Don't dare anymore." Then Baoyu said, "Then I will spare you, but I must smell your sleeve." So he grabbed Daiyu's sleeve and put it under his nose and kept sniffing. This scene shows Baoyu and Daiyu getting along happily, they laugh and play with each other, and they are happy with each other.
The relationship between Baoyu and Daiyu is different from that of other female charactersEmotionIt is more complex, full of contradictions and joys and sorrows. When Baoyu was growing up, she saw all kinds of girls, but she was the only one who had a deep affection for Daiyu, which was not unreasonable. They grew up together and were childhood sweethearts, so they were able to get to know each otherInner world。Daiyu's ingenuity allows her to penetrate into Baoyu's heart, and Baoyu's infatuation with Daiyu is rare in the world. In the whole part, Baoyu has been with many women, but her relationship with Daiyu is closest to that of a couple.
Althoughdoes not fully show the time spent with Baoyu and Daiyu, but these two people have grown up together since childhood, and they must have various emotions and states with each other. Baoyu was worried about Daiyu's body and deliberately accompanied her, hoping to relieve her of her mental burden. Although they often quarrel and get angry, there are also many sweet moments when they laugh at each other like a couple.
In the story, on this quiet afternoon, the sun pours into the room, and Baoyu and Daiyu accompany each other in silence, and each other's words and laughter are full of warmth and happiness. Daiyu has the approval of her grandmother and the company of her dear cousin Baoyu, and has many happy memories. At this moment, Daiyu is undoubtedly happy. Even if there are quarrels and cold wars between them, this does not prevent them from enjoying each other's company and caring for each other. It was a time that made them feel each other'sEmotionand precious, so that they feel that each other is a precious existence.
In general, Bao Dai's way of getting along with each other is much more than quarrels and cold wars, and there are many warm and happy moments between them. They grew up together and have countless memories around each otherEmotionLink. Even though their relationship is not perfect, between themEmotionComplex and real, full of affection and longing. They are the most important people in each other's hearts, and they will care for and cherish each other even if there are quarrels and cold wars. Bao Dai's way of getting along with each other is unique and special, although they are not understood by the outside world, in their hearts, they are always dependent on each other and precious beings.