In the recent progress of the story, Wang Xin and Yao Yuling's relationship has come to an end, and the two have gone from acquaintance to breakup in less than a month. At first, Wang Xin did have a relationship with Yao Yuling with the sincerity of marriage, however, Yao Yuling's understanding of this relationship was different.
For Yao Yuling, the reasons why she chose Wang Xin are extremely realistic: first, Wang Xin's outstanding appearance attracted her; Secondly, Wang Xin's superior family background is unmatched in the entire compound. As a girl from the countryside, Yao Yuling's mother repeatedly taught her to find a partner with good conditions, in order to change her situation in the second half of her life.
Therefore, in order to prevent the object of her affection from being taken away by others, Yao Yuling took the initiative to express her emotions to Wang Xin. However, when she learned that Wang Xin might face serious punishment for her involvement in the trafficker incident, her emotional attitude changed drastically. Yao Yuling is worried that Wang Xin's future career will be hindered, and she will have to live a poor life.
When Wang Xinchun is proud, Yao Yuling can feel glory and face; But when Wang Xin suffered a career setback, her first consideration was the negative impact and risk of humiliation it would bring to herself. Obviously, Yao Yuling's love for Wang Xin is only superficial and lacks a deep emotional foundation.
In addition, Yao Yuling not only showed care for Wang Xin himself, but also was very friendly to Wang Xin's father. She knew that as a train announcer, she needed leadership help if she wanted to be promoted. And Wang Xin's father, as the leader on the train, naturally became a potential help in Yao Yuling's heart. originally thought that relying on Wang Xin's father's relationship could protect Wang Xin from major punishments, but after seeing Wang Xin being transferred out of the police station, she realized that Wang Xin's father's influence was not as reliable as she imagined.
In Yao Yuling's heart, Wang Xin's value status has disappeared. Objectively, Yao Yuling is indeed easy to attract the attention of the opposite sex with her outstanding appearance and figure, and Wang Xin is no exception to be fascinated by her. In order to attract more people's attention, she even did not hesitate to exchange the precious food stamps for cloth stamps, and carefully made clothes that highlighted her figure, although she was criticized by the leadership and had to change back to **, but her pursuit of beauty can be seen.
Although Yao Yuling's own material conditions are not good, the criteria for choosing a mate are extremely strict, which is why she has long looked down on Niu Dali, a boiler worker. Subconsciously, she thinks that if she can't find a financially powerful partner, she will be sorry for her investment and time in image building. However, she not only demands the other party's superior conditions, but also longs for true love, this idealized view of mate selection is difficult to have the best of both worlds in reality, especially when faced with difficulties and setbacks, her endurance is particularly weak.
Wang Xin's liking for Yao Yuling stems from the emotional sprout of youth and ignorance, and his understanding of Yao Yuling is actually very limited, so that he mistakenly thinks that the breakup is due to Yao Yuling's reluctance to marry too early. In fact, although the two are quite compatible in appearance, they lack tacit understanding in other aspects. For example, Yao Yuling's enthusiasm for the topic of cosmetics made Wang Xin feel at a loss. In addition, there are big differences in their values, and Yao Yuling is more concerned with Wang Xin's material and professional performance than on his inner needs.
When it comes to breaking up, maybe it's not a bad thing for Yao Yuling and Wang Xin. In contrast, the relationship between Wang Xin and Ma Yan seems to be more harmonious, Ma Yan not only argued with her father Ma Kui many times because of Wang Xin's affairs, but even personally prepared food to visit Wang Xin after Ma Kui was transferred, this series of behaviors shows that Ma Yan's love for Wang Xin is real and deep.
Whether two people are suitable depends not only on the matching degree of appearance, but more importantly, whether they can have common topics with each other and are willing to accompany each other. As the story develops, Wang Xin, who has experienced the failure of his first love, will gradually understand the type of girl he really likes.