In the hit period drama "South to North", the role of Yao Yuling has attracted wide attention from the audience with her outstanding appearance and unique personality.
Yao Yuling is not only beautiful and fashionably dressed, but also has a stable and decent job that looks very relaxed, making her an ideal partner in the eyes of many people.
However, as the plot deepens, some of Yao Yuling's behaviors and personality are gradually exposed, making people begin to question:Is such a girl really suitable for marrying and returning home to spend her life together?
It is a well-known fact that Lucy Yao loves beauty. Not only does she pay attention to her daily skincare routine, but she also changes her clothes from time to time, almost never the same. For the sake of beauty, she is even willing to pay some seemingly unworthy price.
In the play, there is a plot that is impressive: Yao Yuling actually took out precious food stamps in exchange for cloth tickets to make new clothes.
In that era of scarcity of materials, the importance of food stamps was self-evident, but Yao Yuling made such a choice for the sake of beauty.
Eventually, she fainted from hunger, which made people feel distressed and helpless.
This persistent pursuit of beauty, although to a certain extent, reflects Yao Yuling's love and pursuit of life, but it can't help but make people worry.
If a woman still values appearance and material comforts so much after starting a family, will she be able to take on the responsibilities and obligations of the family?
After all, married life is not only about the wind and snow, but also about the triviality of firewood, rice, oil and salt, and the dullness of day after day.
In such a life, will Yao Yuling be able to adapt and put in the necessary effort and sacrifice?
In addition to the persistent pursuit of beauty, Yao Yuling also seems a little vague and muddy in dealing with emotional issues.
Yao Yuling knew that Niu Dali liked her and had been pursuing her, but she obviously didn't like Niu Dali, but her attitude towards Niu Dali was always ambiguous.
Yao Yuling neither accepted Niu Dali's affection, nor did she explicitly reject him, but often accepted his food and gifts.
This kind of behavior is not only easy to misunderstand, but also may bring unnecessary trouble and disputes to yourself.
In the play, there is a plot that reflects this very well. Niu Dali invited Yao Yuling to eat roast chicken, and she gladly accepted and went.
Another time, when Niu Dali took out the bean cake to her, although she was a little hesitant and worried, she was finally ready to accept it.
If it weren't for Xiao Nian's timely appearance to interrupt their conversation, I'm afraid Yao Yuling would have already accepted Niu Dali's gift.
This kind of behavior is not only easy to cause misunderstanding and suspicion, but also can make Yao Yuling fall into unnecessary emotional entanglements.
For Lucy Yao, beauty and fashion are important, but it is more important to learn to protect yourself and respect the feelings of others.
If she really doesn't like Niu Dali, she should explicitly reject his pursuits and gifts, instead of being vague and ambiguous.
In this way, you can not only avoid unnecessary misunderstandings and troubles, but also make yourself more sober about your feelings and life.
In addition, Yao Yuling's over-ostentatious and flamboyant is also easy to bring trouble to herself and her family.
In the play, her behavior of changing her thinness to highlight her figure has attracted widespread attention and controversy.
While it is true that her beauty and fashion are remarkable, this behavior is also a violation of work rules and work ethics.
What's more, this kind of overly ostentatious behavior may bring unnecessary harassment and disputes to oneself, and may even affect the peace and stability of the family.
Therefore, for a girl like Lucy Yao, while beauty and fashion are important, it is more important to learn to keep a low profile and restrained.
At work, she should abide by the regulations and professional ethics, and face the work with a professional attitude and spirit; In life, she should pay attention to protecting the privacy and security of herself and her family, and avoid overly publicized and ostentatious behavior, which will bring unnecessary trouble and harm to herself and her family.
Although Yao Yuling in "South to North" is beautiful, fashionably dressed, and has a stable job, there are also some hidden dangers and problems in her behavior and personality.
When choosing whether or not to marry her back home, you need to carefully consider and weigh the pros and cons. After all, marriage is a major event in life, and it requires the joint efforts and dedication of both parties in order to go long and be happy.
If Lucy Yao can't change her behavior and personality problems, then she may not be suitable to be a qualified wife and mother.
Of course, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and Jacy Yao is no exception. We can't deny her whole person or her worth just because of some of her actions.
However, when choosing a partner, what we need to consider is whether the other person's overall personality and values are in line with our own, and whether they are able to face life's challenges and difficulties together.
"South to North" shows us a beautiful, but controversial female image through the role of Yao Yuling.
Lucy Yao's behavior and personality are both admirable and worrisome, allowing us to think about the true meaning of marriage and life while appreciating the plot.
I hope that every audience can learn the wisdom and inspiration of life from this drama, and face their feelings and life with a more mature and rational attitude.
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