Text丨The West Chamber is affectionate.
Time is not long, may you meet in my words before it is too late!
Love and dislove are obvious in the relationship, and most of the women who obviously feel that they don't love but still insist on it are just deceiving themselves.
Because a man has you in his heart and wants to go on with you, you can clearly feel that the other party is taking care of your emotions and trying their best to meet your needs.
Although the days are dull, as long as both parties are truly in love, no matter how peaceful the years are, they can live a poetic life.
But there are some men, he will only act on the spot, he will not give his sincerity, no matter how long you are with him, he will not give you a result.
Especially such a man, he can't give you wholehearted love, forget it.
Love requires initiative, if a man loves you, he hates to take the initiative to contact you every day, even if he is willing to say some boring nonsense.
Many women are easily led by men when they are in a relationship with a man in the early days.
Because she will contact frequently and proactively, the first thing she does when she wakes up every morning is to say good morning to each other, and she does not forget to say good night before going to bed at night.
Therefore, she gradually ignored the initiative of the man and was unconsciously controlled by the man.
You remember, when a man's eyes are full of you, he will be eager to meet, and he will even use some clumsy means on WeChat to get your attention and get you to contact him.
Because when there is a woman in his heart, a simple chat cannot satisfy him, he needs to meet and need a closer connection.
So even if you don't take the initiative, the chat between you will not be cut off, because he will share his daily routine with you every day and find excuses to chat with you, which is something that a hypocritical man can't do.
And those men who talk flatteringly, all kinds of love words on WeChat, but never take the initiative, and are even more reluctant to meet, are playing with your feelings, don't take it seriously.
A man who loves you will be emotionally affected by your every move, and a man who doesn't love him, even if you cry sadly in front of him, he will be indifferent.
When a man loves you deeply, your place in his heart will become extremely important, as long as you say a word, he will respond immediately.
If you are happy, he will be happy too. If you are upset, his mood will gradually drop.
Although a man is rational, he will also become delicate when facing the woman he likes, and he wants to take the initiative to capture the other party's smile and every move.
On the contrary, this man never takes the initiative to care about your emotions, even if you don't contact each other for a few days, he won't miss it for a moment, leaving you alone to think nonsense.
In this way, it is enough to show that he does not take you to heart.
Silly girl, don't be easily deceived by men's performance, if a man really likes you, how can he not feel your joys, sorrows, and sorrows?
Men who always like to let you spend the night with emotions and let you go crazy in the same place alone actually don't love you at all.
He doesn't care if you're angry or not, and he doesn't care if you're going to bring up because he doesn't love you at all.
Wasting time on a man who doesn't love you won't get anything, so when you're always being ignored, you should wake up early and let yourself go.
The most basic thing to love someone is to be patient. Because getting along is a long process, there is no overnight relationship in the world, and men understand this truth.
Therefore, when he gives his sincerity, he will naturally slowly manage the relationship between you and your heart.
But in reality, most women don't get this kind of treatment.
When she is in love, she always tolerates men infinitely, even if she has countless anger and contradictions in her heart that she wants to solve.
But in the face of a man's indifferent attitude, she will also immediately restrain and turn to comfort the man. However, what is the meaning of such love?
If a man loves you enough, he will not be disgusted by your temper, and he will not leave because of your various requirements, he will be full of patience to solve your problems and give you more care.
And those men who are always angry at you, impatient and leave because of a little thing, don't love you.
Therefore, he will lose his temper with you regardless of the occasion and leave you alone to cry.
Closing Remarks:
These three kinds of men not only can't give you deep love, but they can't even do a basic sense of responsibility, and with him, you can no longer get any benefits except for frequent internal friction.
So, why bother yourself?
There is no grass at the end of the world, never shed tears for an unworthy person, if you want to be a successful woman, then your tears can only fall because of happiness, and must not be shed for scumbags.
If you meet these three types of men in the process of getting along, force yourself to leave as soon as possible.
Don't blindly immerse yourself in self-emotion, otherwise you will only be the one who will fall deeper and deeper in the end, and the other party will not care at all.