The problem of singles continues, six strange phenomena have emerged in rural areas, and the social status quo is lamentable
With the rapid development of society, people's material life is getting better and better, but some old problems still linger, such as bachelors. During this period, a series of chilling and strange phenomena occurred in the countryside, which made people very distressed. The following will dissect the problem of bachelors, explore the six rural weirdos, and reveal the truth and meaning behind them.
The singles problem "goes hand in hand with it."
The number of bachelors in our country is growing every year, and this is a long-standing problem. A 39-year-old cousin who is not married makes my aunt very anxious. There are more than 40 bachelors in their 30s in the village, which has caused concern for parents. What is disturbing is that the bachelor's problem is like a dark cloud, making people feel even more helpless.
Judging from this phenomenon, it may reflect the changing concept of love and marriage in today's society. As your career progresses, the requirements for falling in love and getting married are getting lower and lower. If a large number of bachelors appear due to various factors, it is definitely a great waste of social resources. Perhaps, in this fast-paced society, we should reflect on the meaning of love and regain the cherishing of marriage, so that more people can get a happy family.
Strange things in life, the mystery of "Wax Moon Marriage".
It is not uncommon for weddings to be held in the twelfth lunar month, and the reason for this is the consequence of the "no spring year". Due to the customs and customs of the "no spring year" (widow year), it is generally believed that the "widow year" is not suitable for weddings, so many people will hold weddings as early as December. Although such a custom is respected, it is more out of trust in good signs.
2. The emerging problem of "giving birth to and not raising".
In the past, people were willing to take the risk of having more children, but now as soon as the policy is relaxed, there will be "children who do not want to raise". With the increasing cost of living, the increased pressure of work, and the need for personal development, many young people do not want children. The emergence of this phenomenon may reflect the changes in the concept of contemporary human fertility and the reconstruction of the family pattern.
3. "Born without filial piety, and died as a feast guest".
Many people have never been filial to their children in their lives, but they have a feast after they die. He lacked filial piety when he was alive, but at the funeral, he was willing to pay for it, and the change in his feelings was too great. This may reflect some people's misunderstanding of family relationships and their disregard for traditional morality.
4. "Delicate daughter-in-law" causes anxiety, "three generations in the same house".
One after another "delicate" peasant daughters-in-law caused a lot of jokes. They are reluctant to do household chores, and they rely on their husbands' finances to support them. The reasons for this include changes in family values, differences between urban and rural areas, and changes in social mores.
5. "Banquets have become a trend" has become a heavy burden.
In the countryside, the phenomenon of large-scale banquets is becoming more and more serious, and debts have become commonplace. From traditional weddings to weddings of all kinds, hosting a wedding reception has become an embarrassing reality. There are also improper banquets such as "piglet wine", which makes people sigh. This situation reflects the distortion of people's consumption concepts and financial misconduct, and should be given sufficient attention.
Reflection summary. While facing the problem of bachelors and rural eccentricities, we should also reflect on the development and changes of today's society. Love and marriage should not be annoying, it is necessary to combine traditional customs and habits with contemporary thoughts, to show filial family affection when living, to develop a good family concept in the education of children, and to consume reasonably. Perhaps, as long as everyone starts from their own hearts, we can completely reverse this strange phenomenon and make our society more harmonious and beautiful.
In this era of rapid change, everyone should reflect on their words and deeds, experience the meaning of life with their hearts, cherish the current people, and cherish the present time. Perhaps, as long as everyone starts with themselves, those "strange phenomena" will slowly disappear and usher in a brighter future. I hope that all rural people can have a healthy and happy life in this world.