The problem of singles has not yet been solved, and there are six major anomalies in rural areas, how many have you seen?
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In recent years, the countryside has emerged"It is difficult to marry a daughter-in-law"Many people can't find a girlfriend in their thirties, and even many people are single all their lives. This situation has not only led to a decline in rural fertility, but has also exacerbated the rural exodus, leaving many villages in danger of depopulation or even disappearance.
The reasons for the problem of singleness in rural areas can be analyzed from the perspective of changes in the concept of marriage and economic development.
Divorce rates are rising in rural areas.
In the past, marriages were often built on the basis of traditional family values and social pressures. People can start preparing for marriage soon after they meet, and divorce is rarely thought of even when there is a major disagreement. But with the progress and openness of society, people have begun to pay attention to their personal lives and have higher requirements for themselves. Young couples, in particular, can easily raise the idea of divorce when they are arguing. Coupled with the late age of marriage and the high requirements of economic life, there is not enough time for couples to run in, and it is easy to separate because of some trivial matters.
In addition, the perception of modern women has changed. Nowadays, the living conditions of girls are better, and the family environment also makes them reluctant to do housework and be housewives, which leads to more conflicts between them and their husbands. In addition, many couples in rural areas live separately because they have to earn money to support their families, and this separation also reduces the amount of time couples spend together, leading to increased friction and lack of understanding, and increasing the likelihood of divorce.
Blind ratio pressure. The psychology of comparison has become a common phenomenon in modern society, especially in rural areas. People tend to compare their material comforts with others and constantly seek better living conditions. This kind of comparison psychology often leads many people to ignore their actual situation and go into debt in order to satisfy their vanity. Many young people choose to buy beautiful cars and luxury goods even if they don't have a high income. This kind of blind comparison not only puts people in financial difficulties, but also increases the pressure on their lives. The inability to meet one's own and others' expectations leads to psychological imbalance and dissatisfaction, which in turn affects the marital relationship.
Lack of gathering and networking opportunities.
Rural areas have a lower population density and fewer opportunities for socialization than in urban areas. People's social circles are mainly confined to their own village and neighboring villages, and the choice of marriage and love partners is also very limited. Coupled with the relatively closed working and living environment in rural areas, people have fewer opportunities to contact and communicate, resulting in many people having barriers to making friends.
In addition, there are relatively few recreational facilities in rural areas, and there is a lack of recreational activities and communication platforms. It is difficult for young people to find suitable places to make friends in rural areas, which also limits the scope and opportunities for them to make friends.
Financial stress and the inability to find a suitable spouse.
The economic conditions in rural areas are relatively poor, and many young people have limited incomes to meet the economic needs of themselves and their families. In this situation, many young people face the dilemma of not being able to find a suitable spouse. The woman's family often values the man's financial strength more, and if the man's financial conditions are not good, it will be difficult to find a suitable girlfriend or partner.
At the same time, the social status and education level in rural areas are generally low, and many young people do not have higher education, which also contributes to their socially disadvantaged status. Many young people are almost at a disadvantage when it comes to competition from urban women, which makes it more difficult for them to find a suitable partner.
The above is the analysis and reasons for the problem of rural singleness, to solve this problem, we need the guidance and support of the first, and we also need rural youth to actively change their own concepts and strive to create conditions.