Extramarital affairs, men and women have very different views
1.Extramarital affairs are like a ticking time bomb that is difficult to prevent. People often can't predict when their partner will cheat. For men, it is understandable if their cheating partner is more beautiful, gentle, and talented than their wife, but in reality, most male cheating partners are likely to be inferior to their original partners in other aspects except for being young.
Xu Huanshan in "Thirty Only" is an example, his wife Gu Jia is both capable and beautiful, and Lin Youyou? Except for being younger, no other place is as good as Gu Jia, but Xu Huanshan still chose to betray Gu Jia.
Blind cheating": The cheating partner is not good, but still chooses to betray. After a man or woman cheats, most women will choose to forgive, while only a few men can accept the return of women.
In the case of Shi Ming, even though he was kind to his wife, she still betrayed him. He didn't understand why his wife loved him so much when she was poor, but now that her life was better, she betrayed him.
Despite all his promises, now that he has bought her a diamond ring and a diamond necklace, she betrays him.
He sighed deeply, "I want to make up for everything about her." Shi Ming's busyness made it impossible for him to take care of the family, and his wife had to quit her job to become a full-time wife, taking care of the children and household chores.
When he found out that his wife was cheating, he felt extremely devastated, and he asked his wife: "I am so good to you, why do you still betray me?" The wife cried and explained that she felt lonely and wished someone could accompany her to chat.
She found out that the object of the cheating was just an ordinary person who could not be compared to him. She begged Shi Ming for forgiveness and promised to change her ways. Shi Ming refused, he couldn't accept that the woman next to him had betrayed him.
Their marriage is facing a crisis, and two children make it impossible for them to divorce, Liu Yanhong decides to calm down and try to understand and accept her husband's behavior, while also reflecting on her own behavior.
In order to make himself feel relaxed, the husband even does not hesitate to show in front of his wife that he likes a woman who is three years older than him. Faced with her husband's cheating, Liu Yanhong felt deep frustration and anger.
But she chose to forgive anyway because she loved her husband and their two children deeply, and she didn't want them to live in a broken family.
Conclusion: The writer Bai Yang once said: "If a wife is unchaste, the husband is also half responsible, and if the husband is unchaste, the wife is no exception." Teacher Wu Zhihong once said: "People often do not cherish those things that can be easily obtained, and those things that require us to make a lot of efforts to strive for, even if they are not of high value in themselves, will become precious because of our dedication and feelings." ”
I couldn't agree more. Family is our haven from the wind, partner is someone we can sail together and warm up together, and it takes wisdom and courage to manage a marriage.