Brothers found out no, girls just want to praise, the more you praise, the more beautiful you are, and the more you praise, the more sticky you are. But have the art and method of boasting! If it's a very common sentence: you look so good today! This is simply an invalid compliment, it's okay to listen to it once, but if you listen to it too much, you feel that you are a fake! If you praise one person for saying this, and praise 10 people for saying this, girls will only think that you are perfunctory, let alone mention good feelings. So how do you get it? In fact, I tell you, praising girls is really simple, and the following three tricks can be easily done.
The first trick is to boast of uniqueness. For example, I look like I've seen someone else wear this dress on you, but I think only you can wear it! The core is just one, highlighting that she is different from others, believe me, no girl can resist this kind of preference, just this kind of compliment, she can listen to it for several days, and I feel that the person who understands her has to be you.
The second trick is to praise the details. If you compliment: you are so good-looking, she may find it boring, but if you go down to the details and are accurate to her specific body parts, the effect will be different. For example: your eyes are so bright today, and they look very storytelling; The way you stroked your hair just now was so gentle! Wow, I noticed that your earrings today are not the same as the previous two days! If we grasp the details, it will sound more sincere, and make her feel that you are really appreciating her with your heart, rather than formulaic and perfunctory.
The third trick, which is a trick, is a trick that ordinary people don't tell him, just to praise her through other people's mouths. For example: Qiqi, I saw Li Ke yesterday, and he suddenly complimented me on your beauty and positive outlook in the morning, and asked me what do you like to eat? Do you have a story? Got it? What do you think Kiki's first reaction would be when she heard these words? If it was me, my first reaction would definitely be to directly have a good impression of this Li Ke! Boasting in front of me, it may be playing, it may be compliments, but this person is praising me vigorously behind his back, and he praises everyone he meets, so you say how much he likes me! Let me tell you, that's how a girl thinks, and you convey praise to him through someone else's mouth, which is better than what you want to hold back in person! It's going to work too much.
Brothers, got it? If you understand, go and practice, one by one, I'm afraid that you won't be able to cope with too much praise back.
Finally, I would like to recommend a book, "Game Theory", a guide to interpersonal communication that you can read and use.