may be that I watched too many TVB costume dramas when I was a child, and I didn't have a good impression of the word "suitable".
It wasn't until later, as I gained experience, that I discovered that the word "similar" was insightful.
It is no exaggeration to say that starting from a "compatible" marriage, marriage can take a lot of detours.
However, there is no guarantee that a compatible marriage will be happy.
However, an inclusive marriage does have a higher chance of success.
So, if I meet friends on a blind date, I usually advise them to try their best to find the right person, not too ambitious, not too few, and not compromising.
So how do you find the right person?
Actually, this question is not that difficult. As a premise, prepare your mind before thinking about other things.
1. Understand the word "good compatibility".
The four words "like-minded" not only include the equality of family origin and social status, but also the similarity of outlook on life, values and lifestyle.
This similarity reduces friction and conflict when the parties get along, increases mutual understanding and tolerance, and makes the marriage more harmonious.
So, understanding the word "compatibility" is the first step in finding the right one for you.
2.Expand and filter your circle of friends.
Finding the right partner is not an easy task and requires time and patience.
If you're limited to your social circle, it can be difficult to find the right person.
In our daily lives, we can meet more people through social activities, interest groups, online platforms, etc.
Not only do these platforms increase your chances of making friends, but they also allow you to gain a more complete picture of yourself and others by exposing you to people from different backgrounds and lifestyles.
Of course, expanding your circle of friends is not about blindly getting to know people, but about finding people who resonate with you in a targeted manner.
3.The process must be honest, heartfelt feelings.
Expanding your circle of friends is a very purposeful act, however.
In the process, we need to feel it sincerely and authentically.
When interacting with people, it is necessary to be honest, patient, and respect each other's thoughts and feelings, as well as respect for each person's different characteristics and cultural backgrounds.
When we have disagreements or complaints with others, we learn how to communicate and compromise.
Only through in-depth communication and understanding can we find someone who is truly suitable for us.
4.Finding the right person isn't a panacea.
This can be used as a reference, but it does not guarantee a happy marriage.
After all, getting along with people is a dynamic process;
Compatibility is a relatively static standard.
Therefore, you should consider the influence of other factors when it comes to how to find the right person.
Some people believe in love at first sight, and some people believe that tacit understanding is slowly cultivated.
In fact, these two ideas are not contradictory.
After all, life is full of possibilities.
In fact, no matter what the case may be, one thing remains constant.
The premise of love is the existence of love.
Otherwise, no matter how good two people are, they may not be compatible. along with everything else.
The last thing I want to say is.
Happy couples always live in harmony.
But sometimes you don't need to be too careful.
It's comfortable for two people to get along, isn't it......