In the past, I always tried to make everything perfect, and I was afraid of being ignored or unloved.
Fearing that I would be isolated, I grudged into social circles that I didn't really like, and I often compromised in order not to anger others.
I was always cautious and cautious, hurrying and trembling forward, just to hear some approval from others.
Often other people's casual words can make me worry for a long time, and a contemptuous look is enough to make me worry all night.
But with the passage of time, I am accustomed to seeing the heat and coldness of the world, and I have seen through the joys and sorrows of the world. I finally understood that in this world, no matter how good you are, there will always be people who are not satisfied;No matter how sincere you are, there will always be people who are offended.
Now, I'm relieved. When you reach a certain age, you don't need to please anyone anymore.
People with deep fate can feel warmth without words;People who have a shallow fate can't be impressed even if they talk. Those who can't touch your heart, let them quietly withdraw from your life.
I'd rather be alone than go against my heart;It's better to regret than to be reluctant. Those who can walk into my heart, I will treat them with affection;Those who can't touch my heart, I don't want to waste time.
If you are sincere, so will I. I will cherish those who treat me well;For those who deceived me, I will never dwell on them again.
Zhuangzi once said: "A unique person is precious." "I don't cater to anyone anymore, life is too short and I just want to live the rest of my life on my own terms.
Whether you are tired or not, only your own feet know best;The good or bad of life is best understood only by one's own heart. We must go our own way and understand our hearts.
As the saying goes, "It's enough to be yourself, other people's opinions are just references, and if they don't fit your heart, don't pay attention to them." ”
Life itself is hectic and distracting, and you don't need to include everyone in your life. Those social interactions are far less than the sincere friendship of reaching out in difficult times.
People come and go, affectionate and shallow, the world is changeable, and knowing how to let go is also a kind of tenderness.
If you can't wait, you don't have to force it;If you don't feel the temperature, you don't warm your heart. Those love and hatred entangled in the heart, let them go with the wind.
Life is short, walk in moderation. Half-blooming flowers and slightly drunk wine are the most beautiful scenery in life.
The happy times are now, and the sad days are just a day. In the days to come, I will choose not to please others, not to seek the approval of others, no longer to pander, and no longer to compromise.
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