How to teach people who don't know how to be grateful? Gratitude is to sincerely repay and thank others, and it is to give some rewards to those who have helped them after receiving help. For people who don't know how to be grateful, that is, they don't have the mind, sincerity and gratitude for the help of others, which is inauthentic, unusual, and spurned. Teach people who don't know how to be grateful to ignore it, condemn it in their attitude, and choose it in their behavior, so that people who don't know how to be grateful feel "cold".
Attitude of ignoring people who do not know how to be grateful. Gratitude comes from the good nature of human nature, and it is a kind of indebtedness that arises after receiving help. A person actually does not know how to be grateful, it means that there is a lack of kindness in the nature of kindness, to a certain extent, it is not very kind, for unkind people, there is no need to give great care and trust, there is no need to use sincere kindness to deal with insincerity and unkindness. Instead, we should ignore or even despise those who don't know how to be grateful, don't give a good face and a good attitude, and let them feel the "treatment" that they don't know how to be grateful.
* condemn people who don't know how to be grateful. Gratitude is one of the behaviors advocated and followed by human society. Only through mutual gratitude can people build strong communication bonds and enhance mutual feelings, thereby promoting a healthy virtuous circle of interpersonal communication. People who don't know how to be grateful violate the norms of interpersonal communication, violate justice, and violate social development and progress, and should be condemned and spurned, so that people who don't know how to be grateful can feel the situation of being beaten and angry like "street rats".
Behavioral selective help. Come and go without being rude, there is coming and going, there is continuity. People who don't know how to be grateful are rude when they don't reciprocate their help; One-way behavior without reciprocation is always unsustainable, and it is impossible to have a relationship with someone who does not know how to be grateful. Therefore, in the interaction with people who do not know how to be grateful, it is necessary to have selective help, not to respond to requests, let alone blindly and endlessly help; Let people who don't know how to be grateful taste the taste of "cold reception". Of course, if humanity and justice must help, we cannot stand idly by.