As the Spring Festival approaches, countless wanderers have embarked on their way home. However, for many young people, this festival full of reunion and joy is also accompanied by a battle of "fancy marriage urging".
The Spring Festival was originally a symbol of reunion and happiness, but for many young people, it has become the hardest hit area of a "marriage war". From your parents to your aunts and aunts, almost everyone is concerned about your marital status, as if you are making a big mistake if you don't get married.
Your classmates and children are all in elementary school, look at you, there is no one! Find a partner to get married, and only then can you have your own home! You don't look for a partner now, you're older, it's even harder to find, it's all picked by others! If you don't find a partner to marry, are you worthy of your parents who have raised you for so many years? And so on, which made many young people feel pressured.
In the face of such pressure to urge marriage, young people have also tried their best to deal with it. Some people choose to deal with it head-on, using humor and wit to resolve embarrassment; Some people choose to avoid and minimize direct contact with their families; Others choose the "ostrich policy", pretending not to hear or see, and to go in and out of the left ear.
However, these countermeasures do not solve the root cause of the problem. Behind the urging of marriage is the society's excessive attention to marriage and age, as well as the restriction of personal choice. Everyone has their own life plan, and they don't necessarily have to follow the path that is generally accepted by society. Marriage is not a necessity in life, but a choice made according to one's circumstances.
We can't blindly condemn the family's urging behavior, nor can we simply blame society**. We need to look at this problem rationally, start from ourselves, get rid of the "fear of marriage", and actively face our own outlook on marriage and life. At the same time, it is important to communicate well with your family so that they understand their ideas and plans.
When faced with marriage urging, you may want to try to use some humor and witty words to defuse the embarrassment. For example, when asked about marital status, you can smile and say, "I'm still looking for someone to look at the stars with me!" Or, "I'm going to start a business and then start a family!" "Wait. Such a response will not only ease the atmosphere, but also allow you to better express your opinions and attitudes.
Of course, escaping is not the solution. In the face of family members' urging to marry, we can try to understand their concerns and expectations, and communicate with them openly. Tell them what you think and plan to let them know that you are working on your future. In the process, you may find that communication with your family will become smoother and more enjoyable.
In short, in the face of the embarrassing scene of fancy marriage urging during the Spring Festival, we must look at this problem rationally. Everyone has their own choices and life plans, and they don't have to care too much about the eyes and evaluations of others. At the same time, it is important to communicate well with your family so that they understand their ideas and plans. In the process, perhaps you will find that the relationship with your family will become more intimate and harmonious.
Finally, I wish all young people can find their own happiness and home, and have a happy, warm and peaceful Spring Festival! New Year's Creation Incentive Program