Swordsman Beihai Three Musketeers
I met a young man who had just returned from retirement.
Forced by his parents to work in the army for 12 years, he is now changing jobs and waiting to be resettled.
Since he is still single, and his family conditions are quite good, and he will soon have a stable job, the people who introduced him to him are about to break the threshold.
Busy going on blind dates. For a long time in the past, this young man had a stiff relationship with his family because his parents did not approve of his retirement, and he did not even talk to his parents.
Text: Swordsman Beihai
Figure Datang
Edited by Xiaochen
Before I went home for the Chinese New Year, I was very determined to retire in September.
I don't want to stay more than a day.
But after the Spring Festival, I attended a few parties, and my classmates and friends who were shouting every day for me to come back early and make a lot of money together changed their tunes, which made me scared and scared away.
All along, my parents insisted that I serve in the army for a long time, and according to their plan, I should serve in the army for more than 12 years, at least meet the conditions for being arranged by **.
When you retire, you choose to arrange a job by **, and then work in a career editor or a state-owned enterprise until retirement.
In the eyes of parents, this road is the most stable and the best to take.
But I always feel that it is not interesting for people to live a lifetime and live this kind of life when they see the head at a glance. It's best to go out and give it a go while you're young.
Regardless of success or failure, all the things you have experienced are your precious wealth, and you will not be in vain in this life.
Because I didn't think the same way as my parents, every time I proposed to retire and didn't want to continue to serve, my parents would always persuade me bitterly. When they think that I can't eat oil and salt, they will even scold me.
So when I went home on vacation, I thought of a lot of rhetoric, and I tried to persuade my parents to give up "resistance" and agree to my retirement.
I just didn't think about it, and before I could persuade my parents to give up and insist, something happened that completely changed my mind and made me automatically give up the idea of retiring.
First, I went to a family reunion, which made me feel the difficulty of finding a job.
Before the Spring Festival, because I went home for the New Year on vacation, my uncle, aunt, and uncle got together at my house and met my cousin, cousin, and cousin who I hadn't seen for a long time.
The children in my memory have all graduated from college now. When asked about work, everyone was embarrassed.
My cousin graduated from a bachelor's degree and worked in a bubble tea shop, earning more than 2,000 yuan a month, not including food and accommodation.
My cousin graduated from college and worked in a shopping mall, with a basic salary + commission, how much money can be paid, the key depends on the sales of goods.
After my cousin graduated from his bachelor's degree, he changed jobs four or five times a year, and now he is preparing for the exam at home, preparing for the civil service and career editors.
Looking at my unbelievable look, I seemed to see their inner thoughts from the eyes of my parents: people can't find any good jobs for junior colleges and undergraduates, what can you do as a high school graduate?
The academic qualifications are directly clicked.
Then I attended a class reunion, which made me feel the difficulty of starting a business.
I had a classmate with whom I had a good relationship, and when I was in school, my grades were not as good as mine, and after graduating from junior high school, I went to high school, and he went to learn auto repair. Last year, I opened my own auto repair shop.
In my opinion, there are so many people who have cars now, and car maintenance must be a lot of money.
Before going to the class reunion, I even thought that people might show off to me, and I was mentally prepared to be repeatedly crushed by his wealth value, but unexpectedly, he cried with me about poverty.
He said that the current business is not good, looking at the number of cars now, there will definitely be a lot of money to be made in maintenance, but now there are too many maintenance. The market is saturated, the competition is fierce and cutthroat.
There are many car repair shops, and it is not so easy to do a good business. Especially at the beginning, I can only rely on relatives and friends to pull customers for myself.
Generally, those who are related to each other are embarrassed to charge too high, for fear of being paid attention to behind their backs, leaving only a cost.
In the year of opening my own shop, I worked hard and was busy, and in the end, after removing rent, labor, water and electricity, I didn't make as much money as a few skilled car repair masters.
He once had the idea of transferring the store and going to work for others.
It's hard to put this stall up, and all the funds have been invested, so I have to return to the basics.
Another classmate who opened a fruit shop said that he couldn't make money working in the past two years, and it was even more difficult to make money by opening a shop and doing business.
My own fruit shop, looking at the door is not small, there are many people who buy things every day, but many times they are at a loss. Fruit is not easy to put away, and there is a lot of loss every day.
A lot of times, you can't even make a cost.
He plans to quit after the New Year and ask relatives and friends to find him a job.
Participating in a blind date made me feel the difficulty of finding a partner.
Fa Xiao learned that I came back from vacation, and when I went on a blind date, he had to take me with him, saying that I would give it a check.
Unexpectedly, in my eyes, a young man who is good in all aspects, does not have any advantage in the blind date market.
accompanied him on a blind date with three girls in a row, but none of them were willing.
One thinks he's short, the other thinks his house isn't full, and the other thinks he has an unstable job.
Hair**, now it's like this in this year, girls are very picky, and the requirements are very high.
Not only is it required to have a house and a car, but also to be able to get a bride price of more than 100,000 yuan, and the wedding can't be bad.
For the rich, this is not a problem, but for the children of ordinary rural families, it is difficult.
After listening to him, I am not as tall as him, not as handsome as him, I haven't bought a house yet, and the future is full of unknowns, and I am trembling in the corner.
What I didn't expect was that a blind date in Faxiao, after hearing that I was a soldier, revealed that he wanted to understand the meaning.
Looking at Fa Xiao's eyes when he wanted to knife, I could only pretend not to understand.
In my eyes, I entered a big factory after graduation, and after several years of hard work, it is estimated that the annual salary has been dozens of W's classmates, quit their jobs, and are ready to go back to their hometown to take the exam.
When asked about the reason, he said that his education was too low, and he did not have any good development in the unit. It is better to go back to your hometown and take the test in a small city, and only by compiling can you spend the rest of your life in peace.
In my eyes, after graduating from junior college, I relied on the help of my family to find a good job, and now I have a house and a car.
He said that the efficiency of the unit is not good, and it may close down at any time, and he will have to look for a new job at that time. He has a low education, no skills, and doesn't know what he can do after being unemployed, so he is very confused.
These days, my relatives, classmates, and friends have unanimously advised me not to rush back if I can work in the army for a few more years. It would be better if I could do a placement job (although I know that if I have a placement job, it will only cost 60,000 or 70,000 yuan a year, which is just enough to live, but everyone thinks that this is the best destination for people like me).
Otherwise, now I am plunging into the society, I want to have a degree or not, I want technology or not, it doesn't matter if I want a relationship, and I can't earn much if I get up early and be greedy for darkness.
The so-called going out is just a waste of time.
Seeing that those people who I think are more capable than me are living so hard, it seems that it is not so difficult to accept taking the path that my parents think is good.