Seriously, after all these years, do you regret something you did before?
To be honest, we will always have regrets about the past. yes!Many of us seem to have some regrets in our lives.
Because many things are not like writing **, you can always write "to be continued" at the end of the article. Some misses are not faults, but in the past.
It is precisely because of this that once you miss it, it will become your regret years later. Therefore, we all have regrets about the past.
As the saying goes, "There is always something that disappears to prove its preciousness." "There are many things in life, if you miss an hour, you are likely to miss a lifetime. ”
It's like Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu in "Dream of Red Mansions", obviously the two are like-minded and like each other, but later Jia Baoyu married Xue Baochai. The Supreme Treasure in "Journey to the West" was not with Zixia Fairy in the end. So regret arises.
What is regret?
Some people say that it is "something that cannot be obtained again, a person who cannot be met again." ”
Some people say that it is: "Things are people, everything is restless, and tears flow first" helpless ......
So what exactly is the regret?The dictionary explains that regret is caused by circumstances beyond our control or powerless to remedy.
is like a TV series "Zhou Shengru" that I once watched, Shi Yi and Zhou Shengchen are regretful, they were not able to be together in the end because of each other's responsibilities and because of the world.
Therefore, regret seems to be the norm in life. Just as there is no absolute perfection in this world, there is beauty, and it is inevitable that there will be regrets.
As I read in the book, "Even in spring, there are some flowers that do not bloom;Even at night, there are some stars that are invisible;Even in love, there are some people who can't be receiving;Even in your arms, there are some people who are lonely and lonely. ”
So, we all need to learn to let go of our regrets. Let the "incomplete" be completed.
Because life is a trade-off, and since that's the case, there's no way we can make everything perfect. Since everything can't be perfect, regret is also a doomed thing.
In other words, this is the price of growth, and achievement is a process of possession and loss. With possession comes inevitably loss.
There is really no way for people to do everything, which is actually a kind of greed. But we can choose to have fewer regrets.
So, how can you make yourself less regretful?That is, we must take everything in life seriously and not be perfunctory.
In this way, even if you do lose it in the end, when you think about it many years later, you will only smile and not be full of regrets.
Because you've put in a lot of effort at that time, but the end result isn't ideal. So there is nothing to regret at this time.
After all, we all know that behind every choice, there will be regrets. Since there is no way we can avoid it, then why should we try to reconcile with it.
Cherish what you have now, let the past pass, only in this way in the future will you not regret not cherishing it now.
Therefore, don't always look back, because looking back can't change anything, and there is no way to change the regret caused, what we should do is to put the past in the past. Don't let your current choices not turn into regrets.
yes!That's all that matters. We all regret the past, but the most important thing is the present. Because now is what we can grasp. Only in this way will we not let regrets be prolonged.
So, from now on, live a good life and cherish the people and things around you a little more. In this way, we will have fewer regrets. You say yes or no.
Text|Ming Fusheng.
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