It is said that a person will meet 29.2 million people in his lifetime, and the probability of two people knowing each other is only 5 in 10 million, and the probability of knowing each other is 3 in 1 billion. It is conceivable how much chance it takes to meet a person. Not to mention the relatives, friends, and colleagues in life who get along day and night ......Those who have a successful life are people with good relationships, especially those that no one can live without. Working relationship
The workplace is not only a job, but also a gathering place for interpersonal relationships. He Huan in the TV series "Be Your Own Light" is the host of a TV station, and her life is almost perfect, but it came to naught overnight. Her husband ran away with the money from the mistress, leaving her with a huge debt, her mother was diagnosed with lung cancer, and the show she hosted was cut. He Huan was physically and mentally exhausted and almost collapsed. At a critical time, two colleagues and friends, Bai Yang and Zhao Yuanyuan, stood firmly beside her and became her dependence. Poplar is hard-mouthed and soft-hearted, while using the agitation method to motivate He Huan, while helping her return to the position of host behind her back. Zhao Yuanyuan, while patiently listening to He Huan pour bitter water, analyzed the reality for her, helped her clear the fog, and started again. Financially, the two of them were even more send-off, and Baiyang secretly paid for He Huan's mother's hospitalization. Zhao Yuanyuan bought He Huan's car and lent her all the remaining money in the card to help her tide over the difficulties. With the help of his friends, He Huan regained his confidence and put his life back on track. Similarly, when Bai Yang and Zhao Yuanyuan were in difficulty, He Huan stepped forward as soon as possible and reached out to help. In the workplace, if you have good colleagues who understand you, you will not be afraid of any emergency, because someone will help you. As Carnegie said:"Only 15% of the success of a person's career depends on his professional skillsYesAnotherEighty-five percent rely on interpersonal and social skills. ”In the workplace, there are many people with excellent skills, and the ultimate success is often the one who is comfortable in working relationships. In the workplace, the lone combatants, the opponents are increasing, the road is getting narrower and narrower, and they have to throw away their armor and flee. True workplace masters know how to establish a good relationship with colleagues, work happily and efficiently in mutual support. The work relationship is the most important relationship in life, and it is also a kind of wisdom for promotion and salary increase. 
Shared tenancy
According to the 2021 Youth Sharing Report, 76% of young people are currently sharing a house, and more than three-quarters of the remaining 24% have shared a house. Sharing a house has become a new type of relationship among today's young people. Two or three people living in a house, seemingly strange, but looking down and not looking up, the balance is not good, and there will be many contradictions. My friend Ting works in Shenzhen, and when she first started, she shared a two-bedroom apartment with a girl. The girl is a small Internet celebrity, and a corner of her room is very beautifully decorated, which is the venue for her live broadcast. The rest of her room was a mess. Clothes were thrown everywhere, shoes were piled up in the doorway, and garbage spilled to the floor. Every time Ting passed by her door, she would smell a smell and had to hold her breath. The communal living room was littered with the girl's delivery boxes, the bathroom was littered with her long hair, and the sink was "in a mess", either toothpaste stains or cosmetic marks. What bothers Ting the most is that her roommate broadcasts live until late at night every day, and Ting can't rest at all. Ting said to the girl a few times because of this, but she did not restrain at all, but deliberately turned her voice to the maximum. Ting felt exhausted. So, Ting began to plan the move. With her "experience", this time she not only looked at the house and location, but also looked at the "shared relationship". This time, under her "careful selection", she shared a room with a working girl. The two have a regular schedule and are busy in their respective rooms after work. After getting acquainted with each other, they learned from each other when they had time, and the two became family-like friends. Smart people will think about each other in their daily interactions, take care of each other's living habits, not only achieve a happy time in the shared house, but also make themselves live comfortably.
|Peer relationshipsIn the long river of life, the student days are always unforgettable, especially in college, eating and living together, and the friendship between classmates will be unforgettable. In the university dormitory, a good relationship can sometimes affect the direction of life and even determine the future. In 2023, 8 female students in a dormitory of Yunnan Pu'er University will collectively succeed in the postgraduate entrance examination and become a "student dormitory". They are a group of self-disciplined children with the same goal, reading English at 7 o'clock in the morning, brushing questions during breaks, and the learning atmosphere is quite good. In their sophomore year, they set the goal of going to graduate school together, working hard during the day, sharing learning materials at night, asking questions alone, and everyone rushing to answer them to consolidate their knowledge points. Zhang Shaoyao is one of them, and for a while, she was busy doing experiments, and almost gave up the graduate school entrance examination because she was too busy to take care of herself. After her roommates learned about it, they cheered her on and helped her through the difficulties, so that she was able to successfully go ashore in one go. As the head of the dormitory, Sun Huzhen, said: "We firmly believe that a group of people must go further than one person." ”When I was a student, it was rare to meet classmates who had the same three views, and I could fight for my ideals together and go to the future together. Classmates are the most precious friendship in life, and they are also the pure and inexhaustible motivation on the road of life.
Professor Tsang Shiqiang once said: "What life is, life is a series of relationships. "In a person's life, he will face all kinds of relationships, different stages, different relationships, and if he is dealt with, his life will be smooth and unimpeded. A good colleague relationship is the lubricant of the workplace, helping you to gallop in the workplace and be invincible. A good shared house relationship is the spice of life, giving you the joy of life and being carefree. A good relationship with classmates is the glue of youth, allowing you to create wonderful and move forward bravely. People who are lucky will meet people with good relationships at every stage, cherish each other, walk hand in hand, and welcome the spring flowers together.