In this world, we always want to be recognized and respected by others. However, when you strive to earn the respect of others, you may find yourself being despised by others. At this point, we can't help but ask, "Why do others treat us like this?" The answer is actually quite simple. Other people's attitudes towards us are caused by our own habits. If we are weak and give in, others will take advantage of us.
In our lives, we will always encounter people and things that make us feel uncomfortable. These people can be our relatives, friends, colleagues, or strangers. Their attitude towards us sometimes makes us feel sad and helpless. You may be thinking, "I'm so nice to others, why do people treat me like that?" "But actually, it's not the other side's problem, it's our own problem. Because when we face these people and things, we tend to choose to be weak or give in, and it is this weakness and submission that allows others to take advantage of us, because this is the reason.
When faced with unreasonable demands from others, if you firmly refuse, they are more likely to give up because they can't get what they want. However, if you choose to give in, your partner will feel more vulnerable to bullying and become more aggressive. That's why we always choose to compromise in the face of unreasonable demands from others. That's because we're afraid of conflict, we're afraid of losing the respect and approval of others. But this weakness and concessions cost us dignity and bottom line.
In relationships, we often encounter such situations. Some people always laugh at our shortcomings and attack us maliciously. What should we do in the face of such people? Many people choose to swallow their anger so as not to hurt each other. However, doing so often leads to the other person going further and further. On the contrary, if we are brave enough to face these provocations and insults, and firmly adhere to our principles and dignity, the other side will realize that it is not easy for us to bully or suppress our behavior.
This is also the case in the workplace. Some of our colleagues like to make fun of our work and talk about us behind our backs. What should we do in the face of such colleagues? Many people will choose to swallow their anger and avoid hurting the other person. However, doing so often leads to the other person going further and further. On the contrary, if we are brave enough to face these provocations and insults, and firmly adhere to our principles and dignity, the other side will realize that it is not easy for us to bully or suppress our behavior.
Other people's attitudes towards us are caused by our own habits. If we are weak and give in, others will take advantage of us. Therefore, we must learn to dare to defend our own principles and dignity in the face of provocations and insults from others. Only in this way can we earn the true respect and recognition of others. At the same time, we need to keep reminding ourselves that don't give up on your principles or ultimate goals for fear of conflict. Because people who have no ideals and no courage are easily looked down upon by others. Therefore, we must let others know that we are people with principles and bottom lines, and we are not easy to bully.