Autumn and Winter Check-in Challenge
Your attitude towards others determines how others will treat you
Relationships between people are extremely complex. Like, don't like someone. I don't want him to know, and I even have the luck of hiding others in exchange for the truth. However, this is unlikely. In fact, feelings are mutual, regardless of whether you hate others, generally speaking, others will not hate you. If you want to be close to someone, they may be in the same mood as you.
In this way, there is no need to blame those who are unfriendly to you when you interact with others. At the banquet, if no one is willing to deal with you, reflect on it, maybe you are indifferent to others, how can others take the initiative to get close to you?When you encounter difficulties, you don't receive a greeting, it may be that you don't lend a helping hand when others are in trouble, resulting in the closure of the window of friendship.
There was an old man who used to sit at the intersection of the town, chatting with pedestrians. Once, the little granddaughter came to accompany him. Someone is passing by and seems intending to stay here.
Passers-by stopped and asked, "What do you think of this place?"The old man asked rhetorically, "Do you think the place you used to stay in is good?"Passers-by said, "In the old town, everyone was not very friendly. The neighborhood is always full of gossip, and it's not good to live there. I've wanted to leave for a long time, and I'm going to leave that place of right and wrong. ”
The old man replied:"It's the same with this town. ”
Soon, a car passed by the old man and his little granddaughter, and the car stopped.
A middle-aged man got out of the car and asked, "How is it here?"The old man didn't answer, but still asked, "Was your previous place bad?"The middle-aged man said: "In the past, everyone was very friendly and helped each other. Coming and going, everyone smiled at each other and greeted each other. I wouldn't have left unless I had to. The old man smiled and said, "This town is like this. ”
The middle-aged man thanked him and left. He got back into the car, and the car drove slowly. When the car left, the little granddaughter was puzzled: "I don't understand, why do others ask you the same questions, but you say completely opposite things to two people?"The old man smiled and said: "It's all the same, your attitude determines everything." Whether it's good or not, it's actually up to you to decide!”
There are always people who only have themselves in their hearts, and every day they think about how others treat them, but they never care about the feelings of others. When he is in trouble and wants to ask for help, no matter whether others are available or not, or if others are really inconvenient and cannot help him, he is very dissatisfied and feels that people do not care enough about him.
Everyone has their own way to go, friends have their own things to do, and others don't revolve around your life. If you are being treated coldly, you might as well think about yourself first. Knowing how others treat you depends mainly on how you treat them. True friendship is about respect and mutual understanding. Blindly pursuing one's own interests will only gradually alienate others. "Things gather by like, people by groups", "those who are close to ink are black, and those who are close to Zhu are red", the meaning is very clear, under normal circumstances, what way you treat others, others will treat you.