If the family becomes intimate, a variety of possibilities will be found when they get to the bottom of the matter, but many people are confused by the authorities and then kept in the dark.
1. Always paying, but not getting the respect it deserves.
The reason why some families become intimate, is because the party who pays, the more they pay, the more they will take it for granted, and they will not get anything in return, but they will not be respected, but they will reduce the payment in the future, or stop paying, and the party who got it before will turn their faces and deny others, and take the love of paying as a cost.
Netizen message: I am the eldest in the family, for the sake of my younger siblings, I terminated my studies early, and worked part-time to support my younger siblings to go to school, but after the death of my parents, my younger siblings rarely contacted me, and regarded my contribution as an indirect contribution of my parents.
Comments: Pay in exchange for insatiable, with pay to test the white-eyed wolf, even if the previous heart is hot, it will gradually become cold, until it becomes cold, so once the pay is not respected, you need to stop the loss in time, if not, the more you pay, the greater the loss.
Second, the family has no feelings, don't try to buy back the family affection with money.
If you can't exchange sincerity for sincerity, don't use direct money, or give gifts to ease family affection, unless you can dig out the deep roots, otherwise trying to buy back family affection with money will be useless.
Netizen message: A lot of things have happened over the years, it's hard to explain, my relationship with my family has become tense, and it is difficult to get back the feeling I once had. Nowadays, only when giving gifts to each other will you feel the family affection that stays on the surface, and in the long run, I don't think it's necessary, not kissing is not kissing.
Comments: Using money to maintain family affection means avoiding the crux of the essence in disguise, which is useless for resolving contradictions, and it is easy to miss the best time to resolve contradictions, which eventually leads to the accumulation of difficulties.
3. The affection of brothers and sisters is only on the surface, and they compete in secret.
If siblings are young, there is a phenomenon of one party bullying the other, and it is bullying for a long time, the other party has no choice, so they can only swallow their anger, and when they become adults, they will have more opportunities to choose, and they will choose to be estranged without mercy. Being bullied will become a thing of the past, not that the bullying party may have changed, but that the bullying party may have neither the qualifications nor the strength to bully.
Netizen message: We have more brothers and sisters, I was bullied when I was a child, and my parents also protected my brothers and sisters who bullied me.
Comments: Staying on the surface of family affection, without deep-rooted family affection, suddenly becoming unfriendly, is nothing more than a true portrayal of the detached appearance.
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