I have learned how to speak for most of my life, but I need to learn when to shut up in the second half of my life, which is not only art and technology, but also wisdom.
1. Your own good deeds
Share your happy event with the wrong person, even if you want to share the happiness, you will be mistaken by the wrong person for showing off, in this unpredictable world, except for your parents, there are very few people who want you to live well, most people are happy for you on the surface, but in their hearts are brewing comparison and jealousy.
Netizen message: I thought that sharing my happy event would make my best friend happy, and then double the happiness, but I didn't think that my best friend envied me on the surface, and later I learned that my best friend was sneering at me with yin and yang weird statements behind my back, which was simply cynical, and then my goodbye to my best friend was never to see me again.
Comments: Your happy events should be hidden as much as possible, don't tell others easily, otherwise, many people around will be alienated from you after hearsay, this is the general human nature, but many people know that you are not happy, will rush to you.
Second, their own dreams
As the saying goes, things become secrets, defeat is leaked, what you really want to do and what you can do, it's best not to tell anyone, since people's hearts are separated from the belly, you don't easily trust anyone, if you tell your dreams to others, others may not only use high ambitions to hit you, but also may use your ambition to ridicule you, your dream has not become a reality before, you have almost no basis for refutation, will only let others entertain your dreams.
Netizen message: I was still too young before, but whenever I had a new idea, I told the people around me, but the result was either a few people around me who took the lead, or I was sabotaged by a few people around me, and a lot of people used negative remarks to drag me back at the mental level. Thankfully, I kept it a secret and my dream came true.
Comments: Others are not like-minded with you, it is difficult to empathize with you, as long as the dream is not out of line, the process is left to yourself, and the result is shown to others.
3. Own deposits
Reveal how much money you have deposited to others, you will be in a passive position, others will find a variety of reasons to borrow money from you, if you don't borrow, it will hurt feelings, if you borrow, you will be a grandfather when you borrow money, and when you ask for money, you will become a grandson.
Netizen message: At that time, I drank too much and told me how much money I had in my family, and within a few days, my buddy asked me to borrow money. If I hadn't revealed the bottom line, there would still be room for maneuver, until I had little money left, I refused the ensuing requests for money, but it still hurt the feelings of many people, and the money lent out was neither an IOU nor an agreed interest, and I didn't know that the Year of the Monkey would be returned.
Comments: The deposit is the family's wealth, so don't expose it, otherwise it will be remembered by relatives and friends, and it will be stolen by thieves outside.
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