In the whirlpool of emotions, we are all lifting, turning clouds and rains, seeking and begging.
The girl is obsessed with a married man, perhaps each other's souls are calling, or perhaps what she needs to build is a sense of security that is tolerated by mature men, which is a substitute for the fatherly love she has never received.
A woman joins hands with a man younger than herself, perhaps she lacks the part of fatherly love in her heart, and she needs to mobilize her maternal strength to fill the hole in her heart and release her suppressed feelings.
Men are attracted to young girls because of their fear and anxiety about the future, they look for the vitality of life in girls, hoping to get the secret of delaying aging, and they are looking for a sense of strength enough to protect the weak.
They yearn for mature women because of the woman's unique experience that gives them a heavy feeling, which contains the precipitation of reason and the warmth of motherhood.
In our daily lives, we are all navigators of our emotions, and our behavior, likes and dislikes are all controlled by our innermost emotions and needs.
Falling in love with someone, that person's gender, age, identity, these are just external labels, and the real determining factor lies in our hearts.
When we are mature enough, we will understand that love is not the whole of life, it is just an important chapter towards happiness.
No longer seeking dependence, no longer looking forward to dependence, and beginning to pursue a feeling that can make oneself grow, make oneself comfortable, and relieve one's inner loneliness.
Love is a collision of two hearts, not an entanglement of the flesh, let alone an exchange of money.
If you feel pain and helplessness in love, then it only means that you have not met the person who can really touch your heartstrings.
Find a good-looking one, make yourself happy, no need to keep it, true love is to let the other party learn to breathe better, and have the right to pursue the dignity and right of freedom.
Tearful stares are the only way to live, and precious experiences are the way forward.
So, no matter how much pain love causes us, we should be strong, because these pains are a sign of the road to happiness.
Finding someone who is worth the tears is the true meaning of love.
To love is to suffer some suffering, and these sufferings are the only way to the good.