The matter of love is like water, and it lasts for a long time. Time has passed, the years have changed, and the love in those green years has gradually been locked into our memories. Once upon a time, I would inadvertently look through the **, letters, and diaries of the past, looking for the love that I paid sincerely but regretted missing in the long river of memory.
Looking back at the time, sigh the love and dislove along the way.
Nothing lasts forever, except for change. "A lot of people actually have a pessimistic attitude towards love. Because, the sweet words of many couples during the period of love are often very different from the life of the twilight after marriage.
But is there really no eternal love? Or maybe our definition of eternity is a little off.
In fact, true love can transcend time, break through all difficulties, and be eternal.
The story of Lu Pheasant and Xiang Yu is the best commentary.
According to the Historical Records: The Biography of Lü Pheasant, Lü Pheasant was one of the favorite concubines of Qin Shi Huang. After the fall of the Qin Dynasty, she was assigned by the King of Chu Huai to pay homage to Xiang Yu, but she and Xiang Yu fell in love at first sight, forgot the strategy, and rode for three days before returning to the Chu State.
In order to redeem himself and marry Xiang Yu, Lu Pheasant did not hesitate to call King Chu Huai sick and resigned from the important responsibility of the Qin Palace.
Xiang Yu was called the queen, and Lu Pheasant was no longer the queen in power, but only dressed as an ordinary lady. However, she doesn't care about any of this, and behaves honestly and amiably.
Xiang Yu was defeated in the battle of Qixia, and only fled with a few of his subordinates such as Lu Pheasant. Lu Pheasant never disliked the miserable wind and rain along the way.
When Xiang Yu committed suicide, she personally hugged Xiang Yu and fulfilled his unfinished wish with tears. When Xiang Yu died, Lu Pheasant did not want to be alone, and took the initiative to throw himself into the river and die.
They guarded this love with their unswerving true feelings until the end of their lives.
This love spans life and death and is not diluted by time or distance. Because, they treat and care for them with a firm heart, so they have such sincerity.
Perhaps, this is the most noble form of love, dazzling, enough to break through the wind and waves, transcending time and space.
Together, go to Baishou.
With the passage of time, love will also go through a run-in period, a period of stability and even a period of fading, which is normal.
Because, in decades-long married life, they are familiar with each other to a certain extent, and over time, they will indeed fade gradually.
But that doesn't mean that love is at an end of the road.
On the Internet, the warm stories of many couples are widely circulated, which restores that love is not only passion, but also accumulates over time.
In Zhejiang, a 96-year-old grandfather still insists on riding a tricycle every day to pick up his wife from work.
The 73-year-old wife works as a cleaner in the community, and the grandfather appears at the designated time and place, even if it is windy and rainy, every day is uninterrupted.
This kind of feeling of cherishing fate once again witnesses the omnipresence of love. The passion of ups and downs is no longer important, but replaced by tolerance and thoughtfulness under precipitation. The two of them have spent most of their lives in each other's love, which is the greatest happiness of marriage.
Mr. Wang Chaoyao, 90, and Ms. Li Guiying, 86, met in the guerrillas and married in 1947. For more than 70 years, life has not been rich, but the relationship has been fresh for a long time. In 2019, the old couple joined hands to participate in the national mass chorus, singing the most touching love story.
Perhaps, true love does not deliberately pursue the romance of earth-shattering ghosts and gods, it is not only looking for the storm of passion, but also long-term companionship and dependence. This can't help but remind people of the classic sentence in the poetry of the Wei and Jin dynasties: "The sea has a confidant, and the end of the world is like a neighbor." ”
Sincere love is more reflected in the day after day of exchanging sincerity for sincerity, and the fruit of loyalty in the wind and rain is the most valuable. After the time, countless ups and downs are actually lovely traces left by love, as long as the partner is still around, the friendship is not diminished at the beginning.
I often hear Mr. Zhou talk about his wife, who is a high school alumnus who came together after graduating from college. Over the years, the old couple has always had endless words, no matter how big or small, they will share with each other.
Recently, the old couple has developed their own handmade rice balls, one rolling skin and one filling, and the hand-made rice balls are round and chubby, exuding a strong taste of home.
The Spring Festival is approaching, and the joy of reunion will be added to this pair of old people.
I am sincerely happy for the old couple, after all, those who stay together day and night, and never forget their love, no matter how the world changes, how their minds turn back and forth, love for them will always be brilliant and worth remembering.
Perhaps, true love needs to be tempered. Only by treating each other sincerely and hand in hand can this relationship be like fine wine, which can be infiltrated by time into a more mellow and smooth taste.
Time can wash away a lot of things, and you can forget a lot of sincerity. But only true love is eternal. Witnessing a love intertwined from flowers to gray hair, you know that the true love in it is not afraid of wind and rain, and you also remember the preciousness of companionship.
For the rest of his life, he was white-headed with Jun.
The three autumns are dry and the lotus is exhausted, and the five days are cold and thin. It was written in an ancient book.
It is true that life has the impermanence of autumn breeze. Youth is old, and time does not treat people.
We can't stop the passage of time, we can't resist the aging of body and mind.
But that doesn't mean that love ends here.
On the contrary, in the face of the ruthlessness of the laws of nature, sincere love is even more rare, rare and precious.
In this way, Mr. Yu Qiuyu's parents went from strangers to marriage, and from the waning days to the end of their lives.
When they married, the mother was twenty-five and the father thirty; Sixty years have passed, and the old couple are more than 80 years old, and they are very different in appearance and body shape.
The delicate girl in her memory has been dyed white by the years, and the heroic young man has become rickety and weak. However, they still hummed songs, spoke closely, and played against each other under the dim light, intimate and warm.
Ruan Ji's poem reads: "The old man heard the song of his wife, and he was once a good wife and mother. The sound and appearance are in the ears and eyes, who says that the old figure is single? This may be the reason why the old couple is as affectionate as ever: what they see in their eyes and hear in their ears is nothing more than the appearance and tenderness and affection of the lover.
Sincere love, in fact, is all in the "shadow list", not destroyed by the years, not indifferent because of the fading of the face.
In their decades of togetherness, I deeply realized that the power of love through time and space is enough to make us re-examine many diluted beauty.
There is no absolute eternity in this world, but as long as the heart is connected, the moon is cloudy and sunny, and the road is facing the sky, then the earth is desolate.
In the dead of night, when my thoughts are full of thoughts, I will suddenly miss the people and things I have passed. More than ten years have passed, and so many beautiful years of life have continued to flow in the long river of time. The youth is gone, the face is old, and I can barely recognize who the person in the mirror is.
But those unforgettable loves are vivid.
It is like a warm blood, which will always stay in the heart. I believe that love does not stop there, and one day in the future, when you wake up, you will suddenly find that the person next to you is smiling. At that moment, everything was quiet, and we were gray-haired, comforting each other.
Sincere love can pass through the wind and moon and cross the sea into dust.
The so-called eternity, but that's it.