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There are a lot of things to do at the beginning of school, and there are even more things to do for the first-year children who are freshmen, because there are a lot of unexpected things happening to you. It is not only a test for teachers, but also for parents and students.
On the first day of school, Xiao Jiarui was beaten, and the three parents went to court, and it turned into a pot of porridge all of a sudden.
Pampered since childhood, ridiculed and bullied seemingly weak people, it is appropriate to be beaten
On the first day of school in the classroom, the children are curious and make friends. It's nice to know each other.
But when everyone introduced each other and got to know each other, Xiao Jiarui first laughed at Jiang Feihu's name, which should be called Fighting Tiger. then said that Yang Chuyi's nickname was unreliable, and as a result, the little fat man Jiang Feihu replied that his name was cheesy.
Xiao Jiarui didn't seem to hear it, and suddenly saw the pattern of the magical world on the handbag. As a result, he laughed at Jiang Feihu for not being there and bragging about it, Liu Guobao couldn't get used to Xiao Jiarui's look down on people, and the result was that Jiang Feihu and Xiao Jiarui fought.
Later, when Xiao Jiarui was about to smash Jiang Feihu with a cup, he was pushed to the ground by Guobao: "Let you bully people."
It is normal for children to have conflicts with each other, but most of them are for something not to let go and fight. None of this matters, even if it's a fight for this, it's still a good friend in retrospect, and children generally don't hold grudges against things.
If it's a verbal attack, an insult, a slap in the face when you come up, a banditry. It must be that there is something wrong with the education of the original family, and then in school you are either bullying people everywhere or being bullied.
Verbal attacks on children are the most important, and that is more serious than you hitting him. A child's self-esteem is not easily conquered by force, but it will definitely be crushed by words, and the closer the person, the greater the damage.
We attach importance to our studies but ignore morality, and if we do not have good morality, we will eventually suffer
I remember that the word "morality" was spoken more publicly in the post-80s, and the post-90s generation talked more publicly, and I remember that the primary school also opened a special course called "Ideological Morality", and the articles in our Chinese textbooks at that time also had a very strong moral flavor.
But now they regard morality as lofty, thinking that those things only have to be on the surface, and they can't add points. As a result, many parents ignore this point, laying a thunder for their children to grow up and enter the society.
Morality is very simple for children, that is, do not interject, do not scold, do not talk nonsense, and do not cause trouble.
Don't underestimate these four points, it's really not easy to do. It's hard for adults, not to mention children.
Xiao Jiarui has all these four points, and the person who caused such a result must be the person closest to him.
Xiao Jiarui was beaten, and Xiao Jiarui's mother immediately found the school. I don't know the truth of the matter, anyway, it's someone else's problem that my son was beaten. said bluntly to Guobao's father, if something happens to my son, I will tell you to go around without eating.
So strong, so unreasonable, so protective of calves. It can be seen how Xiao Jiarui is spoiled at home, even if he deceives and scares the first year of junior high school, the freshmen can't use the school toilet, and the mistakes on the surface have nothing to do with their son. Countersued a group of parents for joining forces to bully her.
Spoiled children will form two personalities, one is not afraid of heaven and earth, bullying the soft and afraid of the hard, typical troublemaker. Another timid character, the object of bullying.
Pre-school education depends on parents, and some common sense life problems should be prepared in advance, so as not to be deceived and bullied
Children should do a good job of preschool education before they enter the first grade, and they should be taught what they can and cannot move. Let the child have a number in his heart, and don't think that the child is too young to understand.
When you explain to your child, he will be impressed. Even if you forget it in school, if you make a mistake, you can minimize the damage. The child can adjust well by himself, and his parents seem to have told me that he won't next time.
If you don't say it, the child is just like a silly white sweet, and is ridiculed by others, and the child's self-esteem is very strong and fragile.
Xiao Jiarui is a spoiled child, and the same is true in the first year of junior high school. The first year of junior high school belongs to the series of timid rats, because he was too well protected and was deceived by Xiao Jiarui.
I believe that new students can't use the school toilet and pee on their bodies, and this result is serious. It was a serious blow to the psychology of the first year of junior high school, and the classmates around her would laugh at her for peeing on her body.
If this happens in real life, it will be more difficult to correct it. It is impossible for the child to recover psychologically in the short term, because there are too many people laughing at her, and they are all around.
Preschool education cannot rely on teachers, and we parents are tired of bringing a child. What's more, there are forty students in a class, how can they take care of each of them. Every parent wants teachers to pay more attention to their children, but in fact, teachers pay more attention to the top 10 or special children, such as disabilities, subsistence allowances, etc.
Conclusion
Elementary school freshmen are the most innocent and full of curiosity about the world.
This stage is also the most vulnerable time, which needs to be supported by adults, and guidance is the key.
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