We don't have to envy others, while envying others, maybe others are also envying us, and our own lives are very good.
We always envy other people's lives, and always feel that the road we don't take is wider, better, and more beautiful, but no one will believe that the road we are taking is envied by many people, we don't have to envy others, we must firmly believe that the road we are taking is right and right.
Someone asked me before, housewife and work, what would you choose?
I didn't hesitate at all, I definitely chose to go to work, chatting with colleagues at work, what to do after work, free and comfortable, and most importantly, I don't need to ask for money anymore, how happy I am!
And have your own social circle, do not need to rely on people excessively, free and independent, can also better maintain the marital relationship, maybe at the beginning, a man feels that you should rely on him more, he will also consider your feelings, once a long time, nothing is good, no matter what age a woman is, she still has her own job, has her own social circle, has her own interests and hobbies is the best, and will not let others look down on her.
People are a contradiction, and they think it's good to be a housewife at once, and they think it's good to be a working woman.
People are indeed like this, every time after working for a long time, we have a sense of fatigue and disgust, unsatisfactory at work, difficulties of leaders, and intrigues of colleagues, all of which make us physically and mentally exhausted.
At that time, we will think that it will be better to stay at home and be a housewife, we will be more free, we will not worry about life, someone is responsible for making money to support the family, and you are only responsible for taking care of the affairs of the family, taking care of the children, and you don't have to take care of anything.
But the housewife in reality is not like this, your other half wants you to take care of the baby at home, do housework, and make money at the same time, once you reach out to him to ask for living expenses, you may be scolded a few words, and you are reluctant to give, or just give you a little to send you away, such an aggrieved life, I think no one wants to spend it like this all the time!
I have a friend who said that her idea before the age of 22 was that after she got married in the future, she would be a housewife at home, without having to fight wits with her colleagues or be constrained by work, and she could do whatever she wanted every day, just take care of the house.
Later, her father arranged many blind dates for her, and some of them also felt that they could let her be a housewife, but only in the years when they had children, and there was a kind of ridicule in and out of the words, deliberately referring to her as a young man, who was unwilling to go out to work, and just wanted to stay at home to gnaw at the old, and was not motivated.
Just because many blind dates have not gone well, all of a sudden let her live a sober and transparent life, she is suddenly very happy, fortunately she was sober early, otherwise she would be so sad in her life.
Later, she said that she had to work hard, not like before the age of 22 three days of fishing and two days of drying nets, she should be a little more motivated, save a little more money, eat whatever she wants, play whatever she wants, she should be free and comfortable, she also decided that if she can't meet the right person in this life, she will consider not getting married, make money in the future, and travel everywhere to see this vast world.
If it were you, a housewife and a working woman, what would you choose?