The Spring Festival is coming, and people working in other places finally have a time to reunite with their parents, and they miss their relatives every festival, miss their father, and miss their mothers, so they take their daughter-in-law and children home for the New Year and become the happiest time in their lives.
But the problem also comes, the accommodation conditions in the countryside are far inferior to those in the city, and it is good to say that the farmhouse food in the hometown is also the food that people in the city love to eat, but the huge difference in accommodation conditions and living habits has become a reality that is difficult for people to accept at home.
As a last resort, many people choose to rather live in a hotel than with their parents, and they don't dislike their parents, because they really have a hard time.
After this news was released, it quickly aroused heated discussions among netizens, some said that since they chose to go back to their hometown for the New Year, they had to learn to adapt to the conditions at home, not to live with their parents, it was better not to go home for the New Year, and their family went to the hotel, in a sense, this is a gap between them and their parents.
Some people say that living in a hotel is the best choice, one is not to trouble parents to clean up the room, the other is the most critical, the child lives comfortably, the rural conditions are too poor, even if there is heating equipment can not reach the right temperature, especially to go to the toilet to freeze the stomach, adults can bear it, children really can't stand it.
The netizen said that he didn't expect to encounter so many problems when he lived in his hometown, and he wanted to change a sanitary napkin in the bathroom at home and found that there was no trash can, so he had to wrap it tightly and throw it into the trash can outside.
Because it is the Spring Festival, there are many people who are troubled by this kind of problem, so the information released by the netizen has attracted the resonance of netizens, not only the inadaptability of living habits, but also the long-term separation from parents will also lead to difficult communication of opinions, some say, I don't know why, I can't integrate with this family when I return to my parents' house, I feel like an outsider, my mother is still that old temper, and my mother and I quarrel in three sentences.
Some netizens also left a message saying that they don't want to live in their hometown because they don't want to make trouble for the elderly, just live for three or two days, the family needs to prepare beds and bedding, after we leave, the old people have to be dismantled and washed again, the workload is very large, or live in a hotel, play with the elderly during the day, go back to the hotel at night to rest, avoid a lot of unnecessary trouble, more than ten years, every year back to the hometown for the New Year is to live in a hotel, how comfortable how to come, how to have so many problems.
Looking at the messages of netizens, it can be said that the public says that the public is reasonable, the mother says that the mother is reasonable, there is a reason to live in a hotel, and there is a reason to live at home, and it is really difficult to determine which method is correct.
Indeed, the problem of staying in a hotel for the New Year really makes many people feel embarrassed, on the one hand, they must consider their own convenience, on the other hand, they must also take into account the feelings of their parents, especially the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and worry about what the mother-in-law will think about staying in the hotel.
The accommodation conditions of the elderly in the countryside can not be compared with the people in the city, the house is old, even if it is renovated, it is far from the accommodation conditions of the people in the city, and they have to face the problem of how to get along with the people in their hometown.
However, there are also netizens who have an opposing attitude towards going home to live in a hotel for the New Year, no matter how bad the accommodation conditions in the countryside are, it is also a home, and no matter how good it is outside, it is still a home where you are born and raised, and you live at home, and this home will become warmer because of your return.
I have two children, they are also working in other places, and they don't go to the hotel every year when they go home for the Chinese New Year, although the hotel is not far away, and it is not very expensive.
I have been thinking about this issue for a long time before the children get married, because there are families around me who have children going home to stay in hotels, and I know that if you don't make your home comfortable, it's not that the children don't want to live at home, it's because the family does make the children feel wronged, especially grandchildren and grandchildren.
As long as their accommodation conditions are improved, they will naturally not go to the hotel, and the children who can go home for the New Year will not dislike their parents at all, they dislike the accommodation conditions, which is not to blame them.
How to renovate the home is actually not troublesome, as long as the accommodation conditions are clean and hygienic, the temperature is appropriate, and this investment is once and for all, it is not a waste at all.
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