The three views are different, and two people will feel very tired when they get along.
It's as if you praise the beauty of the sea, but he says that there are many lives buried in it.
People with different views can't even talk.
The difference between people is really big. People with different views are like people from different planets, no matter how hard you try, you can't find a way to understand each other.
You excitedly shared the news of your promotion and raise, but he was indifferent, saying what was the point of that company;
You seriously shared with him your recent movie experience, but he impatiently said that it was just a movie, and there was not much to be emotionally appealed about;
When you see a homeless man on the street and feel sad and frustrated, he laughs at you and thinks that you are just pretending and not really paying attention.
Some people say that when you are with people who have different views, you either remain silent or you are blown up.
Whether you're happy or sad, he's not on the same channel as you.
He is dismissive of your joy, scorns at your sadness, and is bored with your emotion. Sometimes, even when you are arguing, he doesn't know why you are angry.
Every time you talk, you have to forgive him countless times in your heart to barely resist the urge to turn away, which is really painful and torturous.
People with different views are always prone to hurt you.
When people get along with others, what they are most afraid of is not that others deliberately hurt you, but that a person who has a good relationship always hurts you unintentionally, and often has an innocent expression.
You have a calm personality and don't like to talk much, but he says that you are impolite and disrespectful, and always advises you to smile at everyone;
You have worked hard for so many years just to live a better life and make your life as comfortable as possible, but he always blames you for not being able to live, and insists that you spend every penny on the knife;
When you have a conflict with a colleague who is not easy to get along with, you would have liked to be comforted by him, but he always said that you did not communicate well.
What seems to you to be taken for granted is incomprehensible in his eyes, whether it is your habits of life or the way of life, he cannot understand it, no matter how you explain it, it is useless.
He doesn't mean to be against you, and he doesn't mean to hurt you. It's just that his thoughts and opinions don't agree with yours.
Therefore, his every word, every reaction, is like a sharp knife stabbing you again and again.
People with different views often don't make it to the end.
Whether it's friendship or love, people with different views will eventually go their separate ways.
Maybe you and he have become close because of some special experience, becoming friends, lovers or even husband and wife.
But in this world, every flower has its own heart, and everyone also has fatigue and loneliness, hoping that someone can understand.
Many times, even if you are not understood and supported by others, you feel that as long as they understand, it is enough.
However, in the end, it is he who understands you the least and supports you the least.
Therefore, your joys and sorrows can only be buried in your heart, and you will no longer confide in him, let alone ask him for help.
Two people who are obviously so close, but they are becoming more and more estranged. No matter how important the person is, because he has different three views, it becomes no longer important.
People with different views are not necessarily bad people.
It's just that life is not easy, and we don't want to be so painful and tormented when dealing with people.
May you meet people who share your three views in a sea of thousands of people.
He can understand your grievances, understand your vulnerability, and accompany you to live a peaceful and beautiful life.
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